Why is it not okay for bullies to have better career & life than bullied?

This whole "victim" and "bully" in school days resurfacing after years and destroying hard earned career is entirely stupid

If it's not illegal then there's no reason for the supposed victim to spit venom years later just because they're jealous

yes said victim could have had hard school days, might be emotionally scarred for life or even worse

All others who wants to feel morally superior by bullying the supposed bully are the new bullies that must be bullied by their own logic

There's no moral superiority in supporting the supposed victim, as there is no victim once they are smitten by the success of other person & decide to ruin them forever instead of dealing it like a supposed good person

but being an adult biatch and wanting to destroy someone's life due to high school drama is worse

These bullies got to taste their karma one day or the other so no complaints but that's for another thread

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so did u bully someone at school?

What school

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If someone wants to expose their past bully, they should be able to do it.

what shoulnt happen is third parties exposing things

Also people should watch out their reaction and dont treat every case similarly

Problem is the netizens they need to feel morally supirior online to compensate their lack of morality in their life

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yet another established reflex thinking that directly contradicts logic.

it is natural for a victim to resent a bully for doing better, after all shouldn't they pay for what they have done?

but then again, if judgement has been passed, and sentence served, everything after that is fair game. even if judgement has been passed there are limitations to controlling how much better or worse a bully can be in relation to the victim; if it has no relation to the crime it should not be counted.

But that's not what happens in reality even if punishment is served

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The clown school aka the circus!

There's no school down sewers... only balloons and they float

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Clown oppa you eat children so I'm not sure I can trust your schoolyard wisdom

Clown gives balloons so he can be trusted

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nobody should be bullying anyone online. Knetz who were harassing Eunseo and Garam were born wrong.

Having said that, no one is entitled to a idol career and the public doesn't have to support anyone they don't want to. If fans don't want someone who had some trouble in their past, well, that's the industry. Kpop idols rely on their connection with the public. It's not just about talent or hard work. You have to be marketable. Thousands of kids who are just as talented and hardworking will never get their shot either whether it's due to their past, their looks, their weight, their country of origin, etc. Some kids will lose their shot just coz another kid speaks English better ot is willing to do plastic surgery. It's a harsh industry.

It's not about industry its about the human that de values another just to satisfy their moral compass(hypocrisy ar its best)

Should it be allowed?

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Doesn't seem like that's an actual question.

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Why should they? The same as bullies irl. Why should people who go around always judging, putting people down and criticising live a better life than their victims? They are scum as far as I'm concerned and I believe they will get karma one day. I've been a victim and have copped other people's shit for most of my life and it wouldn't be fair if they were living a better life and had better things than me. I've done no harm to anyone but people like me are seen as weak because of anxiety and meek too. The victims are the real tragedy here. Bullying should never be acceptable. Rise above it, you will conquer.

You should go to the other thread, this one is for victim blaming

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Why is it not okay for Victims to comeout and expose bullies?

There are so many people trashing bullied victims simply becaused they exposed their beloved unni/oppa's past ugly life
Bullies are the scum of schools they don't deserve to be protected !
Victims go through a lot of trauma and their school days literally feels like hell due to these bullies. Life is so unfair when these bullies turn into suparstars preaching gospels to their fans acting as saints earnig millions while the victims life gets destroyed
Insted of realising how ugly their idol is…

Limca

Aug 10th 2022