Posts by key10lee
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What if nobody even viewed them
Yikes, I suppose that would burn a bit.
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No. It's an internet forum and I don't know any of you in real life.
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STAN SHINEE (I'm literally begging)
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Wow, someone once told me I looked like the female version of Soobin from TXT if he never went outside or slept and I think about that every day.
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I'm the thirstiest user on this forum.
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Oh, my bad, G
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You literally said this:
This is sexism and generalization too, but what ISaidISaid said was way worse!
Also, EVERY toxic part of ANY community or fandom is the MINORITY! It's not about gender, race or sexual orientation. Both male and female "FANS" are crazy, and both are the MINORITY, like we both said.
I may look like one of them, because sometimes when I see nonsense, I can go overboard, but if you read my FIRST comment, it was nothing sinister or bad:
And than, here comes ISaidISaid with this, I wonder why I'm angry.
Another comment: RE: Reddit kpop is really filled with GG Stan’s and SM Stan’s in particular no wonder I hate that place
Just a couple of toxic and insulting comment from her, and people wonder why I got carried away.
So I'll give you generalization, but I still fail to see the sexism. Especially not with the quote you provided.
And bro even with your quotes I still don't see why you're so triggered.
But um, I'll let you cook I guess, bub.
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Well it's not really good idea to ask women how men think they don't quite understand.
The best idea I give you is to say why don't you ever text first lol? Just say it like that.
Confront it head on is the best way. Some guys don't like appearing clingy or needy. Trying to play it cool.
Especially if you're out of his league. And if he says I'll text first say well don't force yourself I'm just wondering.
Playing games and etc just isn't helpful bring it up even if it's awkward I once had a friend that only replied when I was offline I'm like you purposely trying to avoid chatting? Lol but it wasn't that just bad timing.
I asked the aunties specifically because aunties give the best advice.
And bro, I totally would cut the bs and be direct (that's my style) but then it wouldn't be of his own volition. You see the dilemma?
Honestly the best thing to do is just ask him in a joking way. but you have to bring it up at a good time, like start the conversation off and then once you talk for like 30 minutes then ask him.
Ooh, that's a good idea. Thank you.
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Dont text him during a whole week. If he dont text you then is not that into you or is a coward. Either way, is not worth it.
Okay, so two things:
1. That's childish af and I'm trying to be cool and mature about it. Because I'm supposed to be an adult now and whatever (college). That was my first plan though.
2. We have a date on Thursday, so even if I did do that it wouldn't work.
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"oh shit/ I like this bitch"
External Content youtu.beContent embedded from external sources will not be displayed without your consent.Through the activation of external content, you agree that personal data may be transferred to third party platforms. We have provided more information on this in our privacy policy.I don't care what anyone says. These are the real lyrics in my heart.
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Thanks for proving my point again! Another generalization, and sexist comment. I'm a man, and I never cared about the look of the Idols, I ONLY care about their TALENT! I'm pretty sure I'm not the only man who's like that. If you can't understand what I'm saying, maybe it's time for you to read the comment from the other sexist person. But I will quoute her for you.
After you read this, I hope you'll understand what I'm talking about. If not, don't even try to reply. It's just a waste of time.
I never said you specifically, did I? And I bet you're right, there are of male BG stans who are not entirely bad. But that doesn't change the fact that the bad ones are way louder than the good ones. And the bad ones ruin the reputation for all male GG stans because the good ones never tell them to chill the fuck out.
Also, please learn the definition of sexism. You accusing me of being a sexist because I made a claim based off real events is a gross misusage of the word and only shows the invalidity of your argument.
Context?
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I don't remember who was really good at giving me advice the last time I needed, but I'm gonna request xx-jenn-xx because your opinions are based (and you're older than me and therefore wiser).
So here's the deal: I'm dating this guy and it's super obvious that he's really into me. And I'm super obvious about the fact that I'm into him (because we both know I'm waaaay out of his league and he's a bit insecure about that). Everything's going pretty well so far, but there's one thing that kinda pissing me off: he never texts me first. I keep telling myself that he's just shy or whatever because when I do finally text him we'll talk for hours. But I'm consistently a little pissed and a bit hurt by the fact that he won't text me first. What should I do? I don't wanna straight up acknowledge the problem because I feel like if I say it then he'll do it because I want him to (but I want him to want to).
AKP Aunties, please advise.
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Where are the BG Stan’s usually it’s only on their group reddits that they have peace lol. R kpop is notorious for being filled with men which tells you a lot because the primary consumer of kpop is women regardless of whether it’s a BG or GG lol.
Right, that's true. Lowkey kinda sinister.
Both male and female Idols are sexualized, and bout male and female fans are drooling over them!
Again, the second part of your comment is a prime example of a toxic, sexist person!
Dawg, I'mma need you to take several seats because what the hell are you even on about. There's a big difference between female BG stans and male GG stans.
Female BG stans will see a video of their idol literally grinding on the floor and be like: oh, that's hot.
Male GG stans will see a video of their idol dancing to a cute song and only be looking at her body (and I'm specifically referencing a thread here on AKP).
And then you brought in the sexism bit and I actually laughed.
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Everyone on reddit is either 14 or 44 and radically a BG or GG stan. It's just a bunch of people arguing with a wall.
