What’s embarrassing about losing a Grammy nomination? Some artists have like 10+ noms and no wins. Ofc it’s good to win but The nomination itself is an accolade in the industry.
None of us know how the members feel, lets be real.
And as a human, especially if you have your hopes up and people set big expectations on you to win or take over something, damn right you'd feel a self embarrassment that you weren't able to live up to those standards, plus feel like you let people down.
So me saying that was me being realistic.
If I saw the Grammys snubbed me TWICE with two of my biggest songs that broke a ton of records, I wouldn't even care the third time around.
Which is why you seen the members didn't post anything about the nominations and show any acknowledgment, besides RM, and he only just posted two screenshots frfr.
They themselves I doubt are getting there hopes up.
I'm sure for a FACT their mindset is a "if it happens, then that cool, but if it dont, then whatever I already knew".