Ok but this is an irrefutable argument for which there is no defense.
It's like a wife accuses her husband to cheat on her. Even if he denies rightfully, she gonna say "of course you deny, that's what a cheating husband would do!". In and of itself, it's a worthless argument. That doesn't demonstrate anything.
I'm not saying that it is like that in this case. Just from the statements we have heard so far I feel like there is a lot of victim blaming.