Display More1) First of all, I admire the way you wrote this reply. A lot of thought went into it.
Now let's break it down
1) Shady towards users, Definitely, There's always a reason for that. Nothing I do is without any reason. If you see me shading, there is a story behind it. I don't openly go and SHADE normal innocent users for doing something (Although, Sometimes I have shaded trolls)
2) I want to ceate drama, but I choose not to.
3) Tbh, If someone called me out WITH proof (Look 99% of time, they have nothing concrete against me, not my fault) then I would gladly acknowledge it and apologize accordingly.
Believe me or not, lot of these doubts arise from them misunderstanding me from the start. Some people who have known and interacted with me will tell you differently than these people who have negative impression of me.
Again, I appreciate the reply.
You're welcome, ngl even your defenses about being shady are kinda shady! You might feel you have good reason personally, but others are going to disagree and thus maybe find you frustrating and two-faced.
Your desire to create drama probably comes out more than you think it does/it's not really that far under wraps from an outsider's perspective?
People aren't monoliths we tend to be multifaceted! If many people have an opinion about oneself and we disagree, yet that opinion persists, there's a good chance there's truth to it. Kinda like the bully discussion - a bully can be the loveliest, most giving, charity-donating, charming sweetheart to those they choose to be and an absolute terror to those they deem lesser than them. I'm not saying you're a bully, just a parallel about how you probably have many sides.
But anytime you know I'm always ready with an opinion!