Signs of a toxic "Nice Guy"

signs of a nice "toxic guy" - usually named unbannBLACPINK

i'm totally gonna click on some random link on a kpop forum

OH YES I HAVE.

i believe i discussed it with a small group of people on here in specific.

@zuzuhhaa

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pick me boyyyyy

i remember meeting a guy like that though.

it was like last year, but anyway i remember kindly rejecting him because i didn't see him that way but he sent me a meme that went along the lines of:

girl: why doesn't anyone like me :((

guy: i like you

girl: you can put your useless emotions there *points to a trash can*

i was considering giving him a chance before that, but then he sent it and it was a major turn off

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mans shot himself in the foot big time lmao

good on ya for ditching him lol

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pick me boyyyyy

i remember meeting a guy like that though.

it was like last year, but anyway i remember kindly rejecting him because i didn't see him that way but he sent me a meme that went along the lines of:

girl: why doesn't anyone like me :((

guy: i like you

girl: you can put your useless emotions there *points to a trash can*

i was considering giving him a chance before that, but then he sent it and it was a major turn off

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omg yeah good on you for ditching him.

On behalf of many men, I'm sorry.

A large chunk of them out there can give us a bad name.

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im so good at pulling the "i don't want a relationship in highschool" card and saving myself for potential disaster.

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as you should.

think of it as goodbye feedback for improvement.

but also don't get sued LMAO

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Being ultra over the top nice around only girls he finds attractive, but around anyone else, it’s like he’s a completely different human being,” a user pointed out. Sure, be nice so you can get into her pants. If you can’t be good to a woman who is not going to be of any benefit to you, you’re not a nice guy.

I know this on a personal level because I'm always (ALWAYS) left out on conversations and greetings from men for not looking like someone "worthy attention" aka someone men consider sleeping with.

They barely look at my face or shake my hands (and people are hella touchy in my culture, take this in consideration).

This is actually good on long term since I get to know in a matter of seconds if a dude is actually nice or not.

They just need to treat me like a decent human being.

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im so good at pulling the "i don't want a relationship in highschool" card and saving myself for potential disaster.

Signs of self love I see, zuzu...

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you guys should not have to be picking up after and apologizing for jerks.

but it is appreciated that you guys acknowledge how shitty doing things like that is.

honestly, i could say the same for some girls too. toxic people are never worth it, period.

Yeah, I realize I don't have to apologize for them.

But it's annoying. They make my life so much more difficult!!!

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On behalf of many men, I'm sorry.

A large chunk of them out there can give us a bad name.

Yep yep me too Some actions are straight illogical too! tsk tsk some guys giving all guys a bad name

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edit it, i don't want you getting in trouble

just be careful, yk how things played out last time

wait wdym

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im so good at pulling the "i don't want a relationship in highschool" card and saving myself for potential disaster.

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as you should.

think of it as goodbye feedback for improvement.

but also don't get sued LMAO

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also not wanting a relationship in high school is fair, they rarely ever actually last

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WAIT PM ME

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omg yeah good on you for ditching him.

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if i ever leave for whatever reason, my very last thread will be a straight up expose thread fr.

Alternate strategy: never leave. I would miss you.

I've met plenty of those, annoying every time

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i didn't know you guys were friends

I have many friends!

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lmao i thought you were someone else for a second

Yes, I like Vi_Winters FeLiNa.

There, now I'm back on brand.

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Men fucking suck period. As someone who's been abused, mistreated etc by men most my life they are all assholes. Doesn't matter if they are nice or not. Everyone acts decent and the way they want you to perceive them at first, then their true colors eventually come out. It doesn't matter the age either, younger guys than me act the same as guys older than me, even ones around my age. I've legit given up looking for someone.

The fact that I know some people who say exactly the same for me. Is it really hard to be a decent person?