is it not right to buy yourself food when you live in family house ?

  • why do I feel guilty ? , I dont think I did anything wrong but I still not feel right when I go out to pick my order and they look at me getting my food .


    is it rude or something ?

    and I dont ask if they want some cuz I cant share , and I dont have money to ask if they want so I get to them with me .


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  • context my friend context...


    you say you live in a family house????

    so what's the deal with buying yourself food???

    do you contribute to expenses? utilities? rent? mortgage? food bills? gas?


    do you share the food? groceries?


    I think we need more context before we can answer the question

  • no I dont work I get allowance from my parents and I buy myself food from it , and the money I get not enough to pay anything in house , and I dont work cuz I havent finish my study yet.

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  • no I dont work I get allowance from my parents and I buy myself food from it , and the money I get not enough to pay anything in house , and I dont work cuz I havent finish my studing yet.

    right then what's the issue with you buying your own food?

    unless the issue with your family is that you should let them know if you're eating alone or something (ie the issue isn't the food per se but rather eating together or something)

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    I think I get what you mean.


    If you're younger and you don't work yet, don't worry about it too much. It's just expected. Go get yourself some food and enjoy. You deserve to be fed well. We're human beings. We all need food to survive.


    I'll say this, though. If food has already been prepared for you and you choose to buy food outside instead, it may be seen as a bit inconsiderate. Think about it this way. You can save money by eating at home.


    In some cultures, food represents closeness, family, and tradition. If that is your situation, even if you don't like the food, try to have at least a little of it out of respect.


    Once you're older and have a job, it may be a good idea to pay your respect by treating the people you live with every now and then.

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