Me, my aunt and cousins went to this tournament and hitched a ride with an ex classmate's family. They showed up early and I was finding my mask while they waited for a minute. My aunt told the mum that I was taking extra time "getting ready" cuz my classmate was gonna drive us there. That guy gave me hell in high school and acted like a creep throughout me growing up. Wtf. Good thing I thought he was the father and hopped in saying "hi uncle and aunty" :D Hopefully proved my two faced aunt wrong aswell or left the mum and son hella confused btw should I tell her not to say such things?
Second my friend lied to me saying we going on a study date and took me to meet her (ex/current?) Man and his mum. The mum said since his girlfriends friend was hotter he could take us both home ew. She thinks her son is some womaniser in the movies whom women go crazy for. Even the guy only seems to value his looks and how many women he can "seduce".
I felt bad for him until her son/my friends boyfriend pointed at the books I'd brought and kept talking about how women only pretend to study and wanna marry rich men. When my friend said I already had a rich boyfriend the mum said I was cunning cuz Ikw where to "put out". I'm asexual. My boyfriend don't pay me for "sugar" cuz he's a decent human being and we are in a relationship not prostitution. When I wanted to leave by paying the bill she asked if it was my boyfriend's card and if he'd be okay knowing i spent the afternoon with a handsome guy and his mum.
Summary:
A mum son duo who have probably never seen women outside of soap operas. They probably thought I was gonna leave swishing my husband/boyfriend killer gown like "Excuse thy harlot self, dear lad and lady I have to go suck the money and life out of my lover".
I dunno if it's the internalised misogyny or if it's an Indian thing to treat men like they are above everyone else or cuz I had a mum that tries to tear me down at every oppurtunity and seeing mothers show affection to their kids makes me feel weird. I dunno but mother son duos need to chill fr.