how do ppl guarantee that they would ....

love someone forever?

nobody even know what would happen tomorrow let alone what happen decades later

maybe it is just a scheme to cheat someone to marry / date em

love / obsession / like / crush is just a feeling and feeling is fleeting

nobody could control how they feel tho

i used to eat wantan noodles every week and now i do not even eat it anymore

but i guess most people do not care

most couple whom i know that marry for many years tend to act like enemy ( fight everyday ) or act like strangers (they live in same house yet never talk at all unless if it is something important and they do not care what their spouse do as long as bill is paid)

maybe all matters is just companionship despite that most of them end up as whining machine till they die off

way easier to promise that they would stay together forever than loving each other forever

ok,this is my last thread for today

Quote from icyruios

I will love myself forever, because I'm the only one I can trust with loving myself

but but what if u do self sabotage someday

Quote from icyruios

Like harm myself? Ultimately it is still up to me to love myself to recover from any damage that is done, whether or not it is by me or by others

yea altho it is hard .imma self sabotaged myself by sleeping at 5 :30 am everyday .now it is slowly improving - imma sleep before 4 am

it is hard

Quote from just-a-melon

This is something to this day that I still fear - there are always promises of someone loving you forever, but realistically, the chances of that happening are less than we think. I always worry about people not liking/loving me anymore, and I tend to sabotage myself with that train of though. ;;

if loving me forever means wanna drag me to death then nvm

though is what?

oh yea ,it is kinda depressing plus hard to find someone anymore when u are an old hag

even if u are still attractive ,u end up with another unattractive old hag

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This is such a mood - as I get older (We'll be 30 next year) I realize I'm now going to be finding people with grey hair and wrinkles. ;; I miss being young

it aint that bad if you could find someone like daigo or ji sung

but i know such ppl is rare even in entertainment business

even more lucky if we end up like ham so won

imma almost 25 too

i am tired of thinking abt my future since nothing good ever happened