Not really, but that does sound awful.
It's not just complaining
She is trying to guilt her to do her bidding for 25 years of her life now
So tiring
It's not just complaining
She is trying to guilt her to do her bidding for 25 years of her life now
So tiring
That makes it so much worse. How did I not pick up on that? Her mom is a horrible person for that. Complaining is one thing, but using it to guilt trip and manipulate people into doing what you want is even worse.
daily? wtf 
my mom brings it up when we fight, but using it against her is so shitty.
why do people even have kids if they don't want to endure the negative sides of it 
people have kids for selfish reasons
No, my parents always lived beyond their means when it came to their kids. They went without if it meant we could have plenty. I actually never knew how dire their financial situation was until much later in life - they never told any of us. I knew we weren't rich or anything, but they literally never saved anything - sent us to the best schools (yes we were on scholarships, but it's still not cheap even after aid) and because we were in school with rich kids, then spent it on the stupid things we, their children, thought we needed. I owe them so much.
Some person are so selfish, but not mine.
Not my parents but my grandparents.
They were born shortly after the war and regularly told me about how they grew up in destroyed houses with no electricity or running water, were constantly starving, had to steal to survive and brushed their teeth with tree branches that they would chew on to soften them into something akin to a brush.
I'm glad they told me, though. Hearing first hand accounts of the aftermath of a war made me appreciate the importance of maintaining peace and lending aid to refugees who are escaping similar horrors today. Far too many people lack empathy because they lack that understanding you gain when you witness someone break down and cry because of what they endured as a child more than 60 years ago.
reminds me of a poem
They fuck you up, your mum and dad.
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.
But they were fucked up in their turn
By fools in old-style hats and coats,
Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one another’s throats.
Man hands on misery to man.
It deepens like a coastal shelf.
Get out as early as you can,
And don’t have any kids yourself.
This be the verse by Philip Larkin
Display Morereminds me of a poem
They fuck you up, your mum and dad.
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.
But they were fucked up in their turn
By fools in old-style hats and coats,
Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one another’s throats.
Man hands on misery to man.
It deepens like a coastal shelf.
Get out as early as you can,
And don’t have any kids yourself.
This be the verse by Philip Larkin
greatest wisdom
greatest wisdom
do you think you'd ever want to have a child my friend?
that's cool I can respect that
that's cool I can respect that
I know that if I ever have a kid, I would put whats best for them ahead of whats best for me
and I dont wanna live like that. Just not for me
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