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When I say someone mention asexuality, and since I didn’t know what it was, I looked it up. I then got extremely confused because I thought everyone was like that and that sexual attraction was just made up. Needless to say, turns out most people have it, I just don’t. It was kind of hard to deny being an asexual after that.

when I realized I don't have a passion for dicks like my other girl friends do

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When I say someone mention asexuality, and since I didn’t know what it was, I looked it up. I then got extremely confused because I thought everyone was like that and that sexual attraction was just made up. Needless to say, turns out most people have it, I just don’t. It was kind of hard to deny being an asexual after that.

Oh this was with me too.

I'd never even heard about asexuality before but I always found the idea of being sexually attracted to someone weird so then I heard someone talking about it, did some research and figured out I was asexual. It was really hard for me to figure out if I was ace or aro or both because I'd never really thought about being romantically interested in someone but it's only recently that I realised I'm not opposed to the idea of relationships with any gender. But yeah, that was it I guess lol. I also recall getting really jealous when my friendship group in primary expanded because my best friend was sharing her attention with other people (even though I was close friends with these exact same people lol). It was only in secondary school when I realised I had a tiny crush on her and that was probably why I was jealous

when i crushed on my best friend in high school

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Oh this was with me too.

I'd never even heard about asexuality before but I always found the idea of being sexually attracted to someone weird so then I heard someone talking about it, did some research and figured out I was asexual. It was really hard for me to figure out if I was ace or aro or both because I'd never really thought about being romantically interested in someone but it's only recently that I realised I'm not opposed to the idea of relationships with any gender. But yeah, that was it I guess lol. I also recall getting really jealous when my friendship group in primary expanded because my best friend was sharing her attention with other people (even though I was close friends with these exact same people lol). It was only in secondary school when I realised I had a tiny crush on her and that was probably why I was jealous

Same! I found it weird too, and I still don’t get the hype over it. Why think about that when you could be eating garlic bread instead? Or cake? Or doing literally anything else?

I’m not aromantic, but I know what it is and I can respect it. If anything though, I’m a hopeless romantic and want to date/get married. Your story sounds funny though.

I have a kind of similar, yet different one. In high school, everyone was talking about crushes non-stop, as many hormonal teenagers do. I thought all crushes had to be sexual, and because of that, I never had one, so I thought it was weird everyone else had one. I didn’t know romantic crushes existed. Sometimes I’d talk about one of my guy friends and my mom would suspect I had a crush on them, even though I didn’t, and still thinking all crushes had to be sexual, I’d always be like: “NO!”. Even in hindsight, I didn’t even have any romantic crushes then either, so I guess I had the last laugh.

I know for most people there's a specific moment when it clicks, but it's been so long for me... I think though in middle school is when I started getting acquainted with LGBTQ+ identities. And that's when I started experiencing crushes as well. I think after learning about it, it made me wonder if I fell into an identity. I found women attractive and did get crushes on them much like men, so I think eventually it clicked to me that I was bi and I accepted it.

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I went through the whole she's so pretty I "just wanna be her best friend" shtick

the 'everyone is feeling this way ober their best friends right? its normal to feel like ur stomach will explode and wanting to see them 24/7 '

I'm speaking on behalf of a daughter who is gay. She came out to me about 5 years ago. I was shocked at first but now I have learned to accept it and support her with it. At least I never had her come home and say "mum I'm pregnant" which is a good thing. I support the LGBT community.

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eyyy!!! I knew when I wnet to a hs party and kissed a girl and her bf hehe

best way to figure it out.

THE HONESTY!!!!

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i'm straight but gurl, you're a credit to this place! so are many i see here y'all are awesome biches and I genuinely appreciate you

Then I fell in love with a girl and realised oh shit I'm bi!

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hehe. I don't particularly care about gender when it comes to attraction, so I've been with a variety of different ppl!

ur so sweet tho nyaz

Mona's allowed to kiss me tho she's my baby!

you're sweeter!