Since people seem interested in this topic, let's have an open and honest discussion about it.
I'm going to start by saying, it is men who do more evil to women, than vice versa. From empirical evidence, there's so many instances both historic and contemporary, evidential and circumstantial, that men have hurt women in many instances. Even in the idol sphere we see it many times (ie. Seungri, Yifan "Kris" Wu, JYJ, etc).
The thing incels talk a lot about is that they attribute their problems to women, in particular sexual rejection. But these men unfortunately are out of touch with reality. NOBODY is owed love or sex. If women don't give you a chance, all you can do is just keep your distance and move on to other people. Simple as. So these incels will often try to de-construct that their miserable lives are a reflection of the world.