Like, most idols have dates in cars or near by the river (mostly the part of the hangang parks without any big lights) or at home dates. I wouldn’t survive such a relationship. I am rather a homebody but I would want to go everywhere with my partner at any possible time and not only in the middle of the night or once a month.
If I only wanted money, I could still date a CEO or someone rich who isn‘t a public person and has crazy fans who knock on my shower door later.