Don't feel sorry for her at all. Falsely accusing someone is bad enough but also being the abuser is worse there's no excuse. Also people like this are a prime example for why people should be skeptical about anything you hear and not judge until you get all the facts. Plus if this is all true, people like this makes life harder for real victims this stuff shits on real victims as now they have more hoops to jump through to prove it
I dont need you telling me whether or not i should feel sorry for someone. I can make my own judgement calls. Thanks. You can feel sorry for someone who obviously needs mental help. It doesn't mean I condone her behavior. It means I wish she'd get help. I'm am adult you don't need to attempt to father me.