In my personal experience in America, I lived there my whole life until a few years ago, I noticed that the standards for white and black people are different.
For example, and these are actual situations I have seen first hand, a white friend of mine got cornrows and posted a pic online and got haters calling her racist and appropriating black culture and other names and insults I can't say here
A black friend of mine dyed her hair so it was blond and put in blue eye contacts and posted a pic. People praised her for being so beautiful and they said slay queen and gave her compliments
We went to a fundraising event where the main colors were red, white and black, so my friends painted half her face red and the other black and people called her out saying that she basically half blackfaced. They did not, however, call out my black friend who painted her face half red and half white.
I want to ask a question and I want you to give answer honestly.
If I got plastic surgery to make my skin black (assuming I'm not already black), how would you feel?
How about if I am black and I pull a Michael Jackson to make me white?
I'm really just curious how these two different but the same situations would be received, so please don't hate on my for asking