Why I don’t like to talk to people

happens all the time. I mean just bc I'm having a conversation on a topic (which probably might lead to a debate) with you, it doesn't mean I'm arguing with you or necessarily hate you. I always have to apologize in the end when all I wanted to do was talk to someone.

i barely talk naturally

I do this unconsciously but there isn't any goal of winning an argument. That's an exercise in futility. It's just the tone I acquired from Reddit and other forums over the years.

Most often, you have to be choosey. A lot of people aren't built for those kind of conversations.

it happens to me as well, im tired of talking about music, books, movies just to see whose taste is 'better' - especially when i talk to guys. all i want is just a casual conversation, about recent events, feelings, thoughts - nothing specific. i realized that people often talk to others only for their own benefits - winning a debate, making themselves feel better, its never about the other person.

I don’t like to talk to people, period.

Most ppl are pretty ignorant or manipulative in the world sadly...

I’d much rather have a friendly conversation than a debate

I feel the same way sometimes. I do enjoy a respectful debate though.

I wanna talk about interests. I wanna hear about YOU. I miss actual conversation.