I have no problem with idols getting PS as long as it isn't forced upon them and it's their own choice. I'm also not one of those K-pop fans who are overtly obsessed with which idol has done what - since we can't be 100% sure what's the real cause behind changes anyway, whether that's make up & styling, angle, photoshoot editing, weight/health changes etc aside from PS.
If idols have done some PS, I only hope they can be happy with the result themselves. After all, it's no 100% guarantee that you get the exact outcome that you were aiming for as can be seen by many middle age female actresses in the West.
The only problem I have with PS, is this weird obsession that many K-pop fans have with it, and specifically where those people love to talk PS about OTHER idols than their biases but their own biases are offlimits. The reason for this that it's so obvious that in practically all those cases the PS claim/discussion is being instigated in bad faith, with malicious motivation being the engine behind it.
the thing is choice is the wrong way to think about Ps. We live in a society, our choices are influenced, our consent is manufactured. If it didn’t exist maybe we would be finding ways to come to peace with how we look or make the beauty market less restrictive. And anyway, people make choices that are bad all the time. the choice to hurt friends or to do hard drugs. choice is irrelevant
i don’t think women should grow up in a world that encourages cutting yourself up for and constantly chasing perfection. there’s something wrong with you, and you should fix it. everyone has to be beautiful what’s wrong with you if you’re not beautiful. it’s a horrible approach to existing in your own body