You like him yes but you clearly do not respect him.
Because why else would you find it okay to post what you have posted about his other group members? The same members HE respects.
And who are you to say 90% of ARMY do not? What you consume is speculation, rumors and hearsay and the place you consume it is in an even smaller space because it's only a tiny group of people that share these opinions.
Think about this analogy for a moment :
You can plant the most beautiful flower garden but if someone tells you one day that all they see are weeds in your garden. The next day, the only thing you will search for in your garden are weeds. You will no longer pay attention to the flowers.
Over time you will even wait for the weeds to grow so that you can remove them and no matter how many you pluck, the next day you will still be searching for weeds, all while ignoring the flowers.
That is what is happening to you. That is why I told you it's unhealthy.
All you seek is proof of claims that you've read on twitter stating the fandom hates your fave and your fave is being mistreated. I've seen it with JK solos, Jimin solos, Jin solos, Jhope solos, RM solos, V solos, Suga solos.
If I had to listen to everyone of you then it would mean that OT7 army like myself hate every single member of BTS. That's just not realistic.
I'm OT7 because every single member of BTS is vital to me. All of them are important to the group because all of them bring something special. Also I respected each and everyone of them enough to give all their members a chance. That is what they've always asked of the fandom. Because I could've very well ended up like you with your approach.
Also I never said I dislike what he is doing with his art. I said disagreements are inevitable and they are. The disagreements in question could be about anything. I brought up something as silly as a mint chocolate debate.
When it comes to their art, I've reached the point where I am not going to dictate what they should and shouldn't do with their music. They're the artists, not me.