Your oppa has romantic feelings towards every woman ever. Not true? Your delusional and possessive.

I was looking for a meme of a boy group staring at the camera and jfk the number of said boy group staring at staff/idols/actress/fans/variety show hosts/back up dancers compilations that popped up was disturbing to say the least. I got curious and tried the same with the top 3 boy groups and voila. See ikw grown adults do feel attracted to each other but like do you, (if your a grown adult) feel attracted to everyone of the opposite gender that you walk past or interact with?

If I was an idol I'd be very insulted if people made videos saying I simped for any guy/girl that walked by and my own fans are in the comments going oh our boys will be boys, this is a normal reaction to a girl, no man can resist or they are "maturing". Like first of all no, a man most definitely can resist and mind his own damn business instead of making women feel uncomfortable, same goes for women. Two what makes you think you know them well enough to classify them as constantly ogling anything with a pulse around them over a half a second clip from 2011? Like is this a good look or something endearing or cute?

Isn't the inverse also true. There are plenty of idols who could be a part of the lgbtq community but have 1687849940 videos of them implying they'd pork anyone from the opposite sex with a pulse for the world to see. Like even if it's a dating scandal that a company denies non fans go oh ikw they are dating the company denied it to keep it a secret. They do the same denial with the other girl a week later and the same comments pop up.

And people call 4th gen idols boring for sitting like sims and avoiding each other. Like I really wonder why they do that. Total mystery to me.

Quote from unbannBLACPINK

as a kid I'd stare at couples doing pda in public

maybe i'm a born homewrecker

Babe I'm not delusional or possessive like your other fans I totally support you and your homewrecking. I'm not a regular fan I'm a cool fan.

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There's no in-between with a lot of fans. It's either the idols are going around porking every person in sight or are innocent babies who know nothing about sex and attraction. Both extremes sound ridiculous

Exactly! Either they are babies with no agency of their own or they are porking everything with a pulse.

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oppa jinja... i sarang you! don't stare at anyone else but me when I see you at the fansign!1 mine

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Too late. Your oppa is dating everybody now

Quote from tetetete

but on a serious note, its kinda not a big deal lol

like its probably because people like to project themselves as the female idols to the ship them with the male idols they are attracted to

u could say its a way to gauge popularity too like the ones who are shipped the most are the most popular idols

Ah that was an angle I didn't consider tbh but wouldn't the illusion break since there are many such videos.....

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I'll talk about your title more because this is so true.

People can make 100s of these videos and write essays on why they are sure the male idol is either dating or head over heels in love with their female idols and that's fine. But as soon as any of the fans of the male idols point out how illogical or try hard it sounds then we can't handle our oppas thinking about other girls

That was actually the point I was trying to make. Thank you for putting it in better words.