[NB] Dispatch reveals more Katalk conversations between Kim Seonho and ex-girlfriend, industry continues to declare support for his return

How often did he wrote her that he loves her ?

Seriously when I read her post it already felt petty and very one sided and sorry to say very manipulative. Unfortunately, I had something to do with a person who was just like that, so I noticed a pattern… People were mad that he didn’t kept his promise to marry her and I was like “y’all don’t know what she might have done” and oh well…

Women like her make it hard for others to believe other women. She abused her privilege that now more people are willing to believe women at first…

Misusing this hard fought for privilege just to take revenge on someone for leaving you is so irresponsible and destructive. That’s why I believe she has some personality disorder, no sane women would go that far, especially not if they’re the cause of the breakup. I hope we won’t hear more of these stories in future!!!!

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It's so unfortunate how one liar (and statistically, false accusations are rare, while most women don't even report crimes that happen against them) is enough for many actual victims to be not taken seriously and discredited later on. It's horrifying.

The Judiciary wants justice, what many people think is that it just wants justice for the victims, no they want justice for everyone, that’s why even the defendant is allowed to have a defends team to prove their innocence.

So having cases where women lied (even if it’s statistically rare), means you have to give the defendant the benefit of doubts… that’s why the phrase innocent until proven guilty. The worst thing that can happen is to convict a innocent person.

But this is for crime related issues.

In many other aspects women can lie just as much as men do. Especially when it comes to relationship matters or if they did something they feel shame and regret for. I have experienced it 3 times now and I was shocked, but now I know we all humans, and lying to save your own butt or reputation has nothing to do with the gender.

But one thing will always make me doubt accusations, and that’s when someone goes public to the expose their ex, claiming to have prove, but didn’t try to settle it privately first, or when there was a crime involved but didn’t went to the police with the evidence. I know many women don’t report it if they got abused or coerced into something because they just want to forget it… but these women won’t make their case public either and the ones that do, do that as their last strew after trying everything possible at first but didn’t got any justice while they tried to settle it in private.

That’s why it’s important to look at every case individually and as objectively as possible. Yes believe all women, but also use your common sense, if something in their accusations don’t add up or make any sense, don’t be afraid to point it out, that’s not victim blaming, that’s just you trying to be as well objective as possible. And I think we also owe that to women who were indeed victims and their claims make sense and are backed with evidence.