I remember it as if one kpop artist once said that he wouldn't date a fan.
I think I didn't quite understand why, back when I was a teenager.
But I kinda understand it nowadays.
Like fans maybe only see the parts of the kpop artists that they want to show.
And those fans are probably only liking the idea of that artist. (Even though that can be the case for non-celebs too)
Even though there are cases where a celeb has dated one of their fans. (but I don't know if that has ever happened in kpop)