[instiz] Knetz criticize that dating in current generation is all about spending money

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    "No but, dating is not fun


    Honestly, going out is all about spending money
    Shopping, waiting in line for pretty food at cafes, taking pictures of Instagram-worthy meals, playing claw machines, wandering around Olive Young, and visiting cute little shops
    It all feels like a waste of money and time..."


    I really agree that it's a waste of money
    I rather go to all these places alone...ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ


    When I go on dates with my boyfriend, I just prefer staying in one place


    original post: here


    1. It's true that it's all about moneyㅜ But I find going to pretty cafe fun


    2. I also feel like it's leaning towards money.... then what does OP normally do???


    3. Same, that's why it makes me think "ugh, do I have to go out today?" and then I just end up having a date at home...


    4. Dating at home is the most fun. Cooking together and then watching Netflix..


    5. I totally feel the same..


    6. I also feel like it's leaning towards that. It makes me wonder if I'm simply not suited for datingㅋㅋ


    7. I also think the same.. But my husband also thinks like thatㅋㅋㅋㅋ so that's why we got married. We've been dating for a while and our mindset was kind of like "if we live separately, our money will just go towards dates so let's just get married and live together~ let's be together at home every day!"ㅋㅋㅋ


    8. But if you date a handsome guy, everything is fun. The time spent together feels ecstaticㅋㅋㅋ


    9. Ah me too.. I don't like to go to Insta-famous cafes and going shopping is boringㅜ I rather spend my money on more delicious food


    10. Dating in a city is all like that though

  • I think this is more true in adult dating than for younger ppl. But true, these are really good points for reflection, do you want to be with someone bc you like being with them or just showing off to social media? But if I got a gift from my gf/bf will they complain if I don't post it? idk

  • Kids chill, 20 years ago, it wasn't any better either. I never understood why people whining about dating and spending money. If you don't want to do it, find someone who just want a nice walk and that's all. You're not forced to spend 100s of bucks in a restaurant.


    Funny how the same people say, they don't want to date with a poor person, who don't want to spend money in a restaurant or doesn't wear the latest trendy clothes. People are hypocrites.


    Bring back the old times, when your parents picked the person who you're gonna marry to, and that's all.😅

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