I think I am a kinda romantic person.
Like most of the fanfics that I write are romantic ones.
Despite that, I don't read many romance novels though.
But the reason behind that is because I fear that it has too "spicy" contents in it, I'd rather have it pure and innocent.
I would expect less of that content in a classic book or YA. (but some YA novels hat I have read also have spicy contents in it)
But there are times when I read a romance book and feel kinda "meh" about it, regardless of whether or not it contains anything spicy. Like the book is not making my heart flutter, my cheeks turn pink or butterflies tickle in my belly.
There are some romance books that I kinda like though. At the moment, I can only think about "You, Me and Our Heartstrings" by Melisssa See.
I watch a lot of kdramas (and dramas from other Asian countries) though and I feel like I prefer kdramas over romance books.
I feel like most kdramas are romance though.
Despite the fact that most kdramas are pretty cliché, I enjoy watching them.
For romance movies, I don't like Hallmark movies because I feel like they are too cheesy for me to handle.
There are some romance movies that I like though. I like "Il Mare" and also "The 8-Year Engagement".
I guess that for romance I prefer stuff that isn't overly cheesy. (kdramas are perhaps an exception)
And there are some romance movies I like where things are only "sunshines and rainbows" and feel a bit more realistic in a way.
Maybe also when romance isn't the main genre. LotR isn't romance, but oh my... the way I felt while reading a kinda romantic part in The Return of The King 
