Do women find "feminine" men attractive?

  • I sometimes feel like I find men, who are a bit "feminine", attractive.


    Well... I know that some people might have different interpretations of what "feminine" means.


    Male kpop stars are considered "feminine" for wearing makeup and other stuff.

    Like I have seen some non-kpop fans say stuff like "they look like girls" and "They look gay".

    And of course, I have felt attracted to kpop stars.



    I think that what I find attractive or at least likable about a guy, is when a guy isn't afraid to show his "feminine" side.

    E.g. if that guy maybe likes stuff that might be seen as "girly". Maybe has a hobby that might be seen as feminine (like knitting, reading romance books, flower arranging, nail art etc...).


    But maybe most people find a person attractive, if something about that person stands out from the rest.

    Heck, I remember feeling attracted to two Danish guys in a bus that were talking about Tchaikovsky and stuff, instead of what men usually seem to talk about.



    But I also feel like I might not feel attracted to a guy, who I might find "too feminine".

    I think the same thing is for a guy, who is "too masculine".


    There have been times though when I have felt attracted to a guy, who I might not consider that "feminine".



    I know that there is this woman, who is queer, who said once that she has felt attracted to men and that the reason why she has felt attracted to those men is because they were "very feminine".



    I don't know if some men might feel attracted to women, who are a bit "masculine".

  • An pretty person is a pretty person, regardless of gender in my opinion. If they are also good people, then it makes them even more beautiful. If they are nasty underneath the physical looks, then they become ugly to me.


    I have many gay friends who only date women who find people like Felix from SKZ as gorgeous even though they have no interest in men.


    All that to say beauty is kinda transcendent. Especially if you are a person who just admires life in general.

  • Yes, that is my type. Not just effeminate looking men, but also ones that are effeminate in their mannerisms/personality.


    Also, I think the concepts of femineity and masculinity are just societal boxes meant to make people act/look a certain way.

  • well the male celebs i fantasize the most about are yuta and timothee. idk if people consider them feminine. I don't. But there are a lot of male celebs that look a lot more masculine than them that i am not attracted to at all.

  • Depends on the man I like. If you for example show me anyone that people might find feminin looking I may or may not tell them that some of them are not my type and that I might only like a few.


    You could for example show me 100 KPop-idols that fall into that cathegory and I would tell you atleast for half of them that they arn't my type

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