"A woman and a man. So they must be a couple."

  • Well... I guess most of the times if e.g. a man and a woman are sitting at a restaurant together, people assume that these two are a couple.

    Even though these two could actually just be friends or siblings or something.


    Like there was a time when I was at a café together with a guy, who I'm in a platonic relationship with. (I wouldn't say that we are friends.)

    And I was wondering if we would be mistaken as being a couple.



    I remember when I was an early teen and sitting in class, being like "I want a friend."

    I think some of my male classmates were like "I can be your friend", and I refused to be friends with them, because I guess I thought boys were only for boyfriend. But well... I didn't feel like they genuinely meant it because most of my male classmates bullied me.

    Despite the fact that when I was a child, I used to play with the other children, including boys, in the neighbourhood and we were kinda friends.



    And I know that there is the "friends-to-lovers" trope in some medias, where the girl and the boy are good friends and then they become more than friends. And I guess that in some media, a straight girl and a straight boy being just friends and staying just friends must be rare (even though some people probably would be shipping them).



    I have heard that for some gay couples, they sometimes get mistaken as being friends or siblings by strangers.

  • Male-female friendship is possible when something restraints you both to become lovers. I had a lot of female friends during my student years but I slept with nobody of them.

    One girl had a very pretty face, bob cut hairstyle, positive and funny behavior... however, she was extremely slim, her figure reminded of 13 year old girl. I did not feel a sexual attraction towards her.

    Another one was friendly, talkative, with a good figure, but she had an average face, low IQ and she was a peasant...

    If to talk about my circles outside of university, girl#3 was positive minded, had a good physique and face, but she is crazy about Christianity, never used a make up, dressed like a granny...

    You see how it works.

    "You can troll on your main and we have plenty examples of that" (c) Ves


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  • In college or university, you have very strong common themes that connect you - studies, sports, entertainment - so it's easy to have friends of the opposite sex there without romance, although you can never know for sure if someone has a crush on you

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