I have a crush on a married man

And I want to stop crushing on him.

He is a handsome guy, who also is sweet and kind towards me and I like hanging out with him.

I think he likes me too, but in a platonic way.

Even though he likes me in a platonic way, I don't want to be a homewrecker.

I want this feeling to fade away.

And only feel platonic feelings for him.

Quote from TheHeretic

Umm…married men don’t “hang out” with single women. Usually, we avoid them like the plague.

Well... I need to clarify that the reason why he hangs out with me is because that is a part of his job.

He works at a place for people with social and psychological difficulties to socialize with each other and stuff. (and I'm at this place few days a week because of my "difficulties")

One of his jobs there is to hang out with me once a week. (it wasn't him being like "that woman is pretty and also single, so I want to 'hang out' with her")

I'm pretty sure that he wouldn't flirt with me or stuff like that.

Now you're probably going to say that I should avoid this place or something, but well... I like that place (not because of him, but for other reasons) and some of my family members believe that this place has had a positive effect on me because it has helped me become more social. And I also don't want him to stop working there (unless it is for a different reason other than "someone having a crush on him") because he seems to like this place too.

By the way, his wife knows about it.

So, he is not hanging out with me behind her back.

And I'm sure that he loves her very much.

Quote from Aeicy

the crush will probably go away with time

Yeah, I remember having a crush on a guy and then it faded away and I ended up finding him less attractive.