Growing up, do you think your parents trauma dumped on you, or ranted about or involved you I'm their grown up problems too much?

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I know that if I ever have a kid, I would put whats best for them ahead of whats best for me

and I dont wanna live like that. Just not for me

that's the "ideal" parents I guess - to me that's normal but I do understand that not every parent thinks that way...

when did you start having those thoughts/opinions? for me I've always known that I wanted children

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pretty much always

I grow up in a strict culture, strict upbringing so I crave freedom

perfectly understandable...

Not usually, maybe if they had a bad day the complained about something. Maybe the most they told me was "you don't know yet how hard is to earn money" or stuff like that. But they told me stories about their youth, both were really cool you know, the rebel type of young people.