yes, him not asking me if i was okay (since i wasn't talking) was the nail in the coffin for me... i mean, we sort of had this dumb running joke where we'd say "you're probably spending time with [name] instead of me," but i thought that was just a joke, and maybe it was at first, but not by the end of it all...
it still helped me feel better
It's always nice to hear confirmation of what you already know in your head from people with no bias in the situation. 
