I see a lot of people, specially fans are confused with J lyrics as it doesn't match her reality so I'll explain to you all. (Contains irony )
J debuted with a song called SOLO when she was dating like ??? But you guys should understand that SHE was advising the boy that if they broke up he would suffer more.
Now to her other date she sang: a prince is not even in my list and yes, she is right. If there is a legend king available why would you be looking for a prince? Tell me why? Just be the queen you are and live as a legendary couple.