Alright....... Let's make one thing clear........

do you ever think its possible for the court of public opinion to not decide the outcome of an alleged "incident" prior to the actual determination of said incident

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yes its experimentation...

I'm a dude if i kiss another dude its weird for me.

if i kiss a girl (if not married) its normal for me

but for a gay dude kissing another gay dude its normal for them

but a gay dude kissing a girl (the gay dude knowing that they are gay and not bi or anything) then i guess it should be weird for them

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But what about people who thought that they were hetero and even was in a relationship but later realise that they are actually Gay

do you think kpop stans in general are too invested in kpop?

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But what about people who thought that they were hetero and even was in a relationship but later realise that they are actually Gay

its still weird but just because its weird doesn't make it wrong...

and again I can't speak for others...I can give my opinions about things but I'm certainly not speaking for all hetero males or gay males...

to me if I see a gay man or woman kissing another person of the same gender its fine - that's their sexual preference but if i see a hetero man kissing a person of the same gender voluntarily or a gay man kissing a girl voluntarily then its weird...

but people can experiment - I'm not saying they can't do it or they can't experiment but to me it'll be weird...unless they outright come and say look I don't know what I like and I'm experimenting...

what you've asked is a knowingly gay man kissing a girl...

I guess the term weird is like strange or different or unsettling (i can't but the exact english phrase to it)

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Nope. People will always side with victim sl yeah, Alleged incident is 95% done and the accused has noose tied to their neck, the moment, the truth is out, Either The noose is broken or their neck.

Nothing will ever happen to the alleged victim. It is what it is

lets go one step further and say does it even matter whether said incident is true or not given the possible damage to one's reputation from the judgments of people prior to the determination of said incident.

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No it doesn't matter if the accusation is true or not, Damage will be done. Look ag Johnny Depp's case. Amber Heard's defence has no strong evidence.

ok therefore what should be done in order to protect an artists' integrity and reputation to combat allegations of "whatever" (be it bullying/violence/smoking/durgs/dating etc etc) in your opinion

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Gather evidences/witnesses and go PUBLIC in the most brutal way possible.

"Roast the false accuser alive. No mercy"

This is a metaphor. I mean, Legally, End the..

Since this kind of accusations can be Career-threatening or even Life-ending,

Whoever accused them should feel the same.

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I made a thread something similar to this hahaha (but obviously after the bullying allegations against Soojin had come up)

It is now irrelevant whether Soojin bullied someone or not... - The K-Lounge - allkpop forums