im not usually on my twt (as in aespa's fandom "my" not as in the twitter account I own) so I can't gauge just how toxic they are, but from what Ive seen the good majority of them are pretty normal, just like any other fandom I guess? maybe mys are just more "vocal" when being toxic?
after spending time lurking on all sorts of kpop forums I guess I'm under the impression that they're toxic because that's what a lot of people are saying but ill have to investigate for myself first