Posts by Mr-gloomy

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First of all, good luck on your trip! I hope you have a lot of fun on it. As for advice, I know it's scary, but I'd say to do it. Sometimes I get scared to do certain things in public, even though I want to do it, so I get it. Then, I think about it logically: most likely, I won't remember them and they won't remember me even a few minutes later. Even if they do, they likely won't bump into me again. That mindset helps me a lot.

As other people have said, try your best to not stress over it too much, bravely put yourself out there and learning at least a few common phrases of the language will all help you quite a bit as well. Just be yourself. Try and focus on doing what makes you happy, since having fun would be nice.

You’re right, people have better thing to do in their life than focusing on some stranger they met in sea lol… And like you said I shouldn’t think about it too much and just try my best to have fun, thank you

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Neither do I, people are annoying. Talk to animals instead, it's more fun! I heard squirrels make great comedians!

Animals, interesting, I’ll try this too! They don’t like me tho but thanks

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I liked the song which was a surprise cause I'm not usually into that type of music

Quote from selfmate

is it you see other non-optimistic people and that makes you feel depressed?

I guess I'm mostly a happy go lucky person so nothing really depresses me

Kinda… also, though I am an optimistic person like I said I like a small dose of hopelessness in my life just to balance lol,I’m weird I know

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username does not match!!! lol

Right? But you know too much optimism can be depressing sometimes lol

I also really like this song

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I guess also try learning some of the language

at least basic things like

please

thank you

hello

goodbye

etc etc

those make a big difference I think

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Yeah apparently local love when you try to talk their language, I’ll try this too.

thank you

Quote from babybat

bravery is being scared but doing it anyway!

something to keep in mind is that most people are stuck in their own heads and feel very insecure and self conscious about themselves, so they're not actually paying much attention to you or the things you're saying or not saying. they're too busy worrying about themselves. if you treat other people more like side characters in your quest, where it's fun to talk to them and see what kind of wacky stuff they do or say, it gets a lot easier to not take it all so seriously

you'll be okay! just have fun

Really interesting, life is too short I should stop worrying of what others might think of me. I really love the life is a video game and people are side characters part…thanks

Quote from sheryllee3

yes. Kids already freakin out on twitter asking for the pic to be deleted. They’re weird.

Kids

We're the same age

I mean they are labelmates, what is so surprising

Quote from NEO

You're in a foreign place where nobody knows you, just say fuck it and do it scared. Put yourself out there even if you're scared, you'll feel relieved that you've done something despite your initial fears. It's freeing.

I guess you're right, one of the main reason why I'm doing this trip in the first place is to get out of my comfort zone, so yeah fuck it

Quote from Ves

I would caution you not to try to do things like drink alcohol to "loosen up" - it's not a good long term plan. I work best with a list of pointers. I do not have the issue of talking to people, but I'd give you this list:

1. Take a breath (just a couple!)
2. Count down from 5 (5, 4, 3, 2, 1)
3. Smile and work up to following that with a "Hey"

Start small. The "hey" opens up for either the other party to say something or you to add on. Talk about the weather. Work up to asking what brings them to the trail. if they're local, maybe ask if a lot of travelers come and then for recommendations.

Some people won't want to talk. It's ok. Don't get discouraged. Others who do want to talk will keep the conversation going if you seem friendly. Then just let it go from there. The conversation should develop naturally.

Good luck!!! Sounds awesome. My brother backpacked throughout Asia and he loved the experience, so I'm excited for you!

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Breathing and not thinking too much before talking seems like a good idea, I'll try, thanks

I mean I have no choice tough because it's gonna be a long painful trip if I don't force myself lol

I'm solo backpacking through Asia and maybe South America in September, and I'm scared I won't be able to make friends or just talk to people while traveling

Any advice?

The day I quit my job!, there is no better feeling, really...

half full,I'm an optimistic person

It depends, most people have 1 or 2 bathroom but the rich one prolly have more

Only a cup of coffee

No people are selfish, I only trust myself

I hate this company so much