About dating a Korean dude

  • If you ever dare to go to Korea and find your damn Korean boyfriend, here is a video where a Korean guy gets asked on dating


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  • One has to be careful about dating a Korean guy bc a lot of male Koreans think of dating female foreigners as “nice to have“ and don’t even want a serious relationship. Basically, they want the taste but nothing more

  • feel like people who fetishize men/women for their ethnicity tend to attract ones that fetishize them back


    they deserve each other

    Yeah true but in Korea, this is the case for a lot of people who just want to date. More Korean women are open to date foreign guys seriously than guys because being foreign is seen as easy for a lot of people. My friend once had to break up as well bc the family of her ex expected him to marry a “real“ Korean girl.

  • Yeah true but in Korea, this is the case for a lot of people who just want to date. More Korean women are open to date foreign guys seriously than guys because being foreign is seen as easy for a lot of people. My friend once had to break up as well bc the family of her ex expected him to marry a “real“ Korean girl.

    i mean it ultimately comes down to people fantasizing and stereotyping


    who tf cares so much about "real" "foreign" and all that stuff

    i can understand for older generations but anyone who's been on the internet for a couple of years can see how little place of birth actually changes our general human behaviour

  • i mean it ultimately comes down to people fantasizing and stereotyping


    who tf cares so much about "real" "foreign" and all that stuff

    i can understand for older generations but anyone who's been on the internet for a couple of years can see how little place of birth actually changes our general human behaviour

    Yes and no, I mean if you are living in Korea, a very homogeneous country without a lot of other ethnicities, you have to date Koreans up to some point or you will most likely come across Koreans naturally whether you like it or not. It’s not that there aren’t foreigners who fetishize Koreans but from experience, it’s coming a lot from Koreans who most likely never interacted with foreigners or different ethnicities and see them as “exotic“. That’s why I said people should be careful. These kind of people think that the Western world is really naughty and that most foreign women are dirty minded. So, they think that most foreign girls are easy.

    Imo, people living in the 21st century and having Social media, should be open enough to not fetishize other ethnicities. I mean there are a lot of other things that matter more than the ethnicity.

  • Yes and no, I mean if you are living in Korea, a very homogeneous country without a lot of other ethnicities, you have to date Koreans up to some point or you will most likely come across Koreans naturally whether you like it or not. It’s not that there aren’t foreigners who fetishize Koreans but from experience, it’s coming a lot from Koreans who most likely never interacted with foreigners or different ethnicities and see them as “exotic“. That’s why I said people should be careful. These kind of people think that the Western world is really naughty and that most foreign women are dirty minded. So, they think that most foreign girls are easy.

    Imo, people living in the 21st century and having Social media, should be open enough to not fetishize other ethnicities. I mean there are a lot of other things that matter more than the ethnicity.

    what you're describing is normal

    dating from the people around you


    what im talking about are the tons of foreigners that fetishize korean guys based on the image of their fav celebrity and then watch all these vids about koreans fetishizing foreigners and complaining


    basically, it goes both ways


    if there is a mutual connection, no side will be fetishizing of course


    if one side is in it for the fantasy, they shouldnt be surprised that the other side is too

  • Yeah I get what you mean

  • Yeah true but in Korea, this is the case for a lot of people who just want to date. More Korean women are open to date foreign guys seriously than guys because being foreign is seen as easy for a lot of people. My friend once had to break up as well bc the family of her ex expected him to marry a “real“ Korean girl.

    But that’s bc of something else.

    Like they don’t even call American Koreans “real”.


    Usually it’s women in (maybe certain parts?) Asia that are fetishized but now Koreans are too. I don’t think it’s a bad thing but picking a bf or gf based purely on looks is too shallow regardless.

  • Yes and no, I mean if you are living in Korea, a very homogeneous country without a lot of other ethnicities, you have to date Koreans up to some point or you will most likely come across Koreans naturally whether you like it or not. It’s not that there aren’t foreigners who fetishize Koreans but from experience, it’s coming a lot from Koreans who most likely never interacted with foreigners or different ethnicities and see them as “exotic“. That’s why I said people should be careful. These kind of people think that the Western world is really naughty and that most foreign women are dirty minded. So, they think that most foreign girls are easy.

    Imo, people living in the 21st century and having Social media, should be open enough to not fetishize other ethnicities. I mean there are a lot of other things that matter more than the ethnicity.

    Dirty minded girl here


    :peperun:

  • But that’s bc of something else.

    Like they don’t even call American Koreans “real”.


    Usually it’s women in (maybe certain parts?) Asia that are fetishized but now Koreans are too. I don’t think it’s a bad thing but picking a bf or gf based purely on looks is too shallow regardless.

    It’s because of a lot of factors but this is one of them. Picking someone due to one shallow reason isn‘t always the best option. It’s like people who only date pretty people and realizing that ✨personality✨ matters

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