Like I said, you can praise whoever you want. But I wouldn’t call it self-aware if you can praise someone’s behavior but aren’t trying to change your own.
But you do you I guess. lol
We can't fully judge someone based on this forum only... Unless they are here all day slut shaming like some or bash ppl unprovoked. Fighting with ppl with a reason is not the same as bullying, save some users ppl always fight in the defense of their faves so I woulnd't classify it as bullying. Fights are normal human behaviour.