If we have topics like this you have 3 types of people
First the offended ones, secondly the “ get over yourself it’s not a big deal” ones and the “ I agree but keep the same energy...” ones
Once you had these 3 Groups you see two types of conversation.
1. The ones who giving an effort to understand where the other one is coming from to give the best response no matter if they agree or not.
2. The ones who are so into their emotions and selective perception that they keep on talking pass each other, so the further the discussion goes, the more the conversation gets derailed.
But I add No.3 too.... the ones who join and say random stuff or post eating popcorn emoji and go.
If you actually take time to read what everyone is saying you actually realize that often both sides have valid points, but since they are living in their own truth and reality are ignorant at the same time as well.
Actually there is no winner or looser in such discussions.