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    Quote from crystalblues

    LMFAO Taeyeon mentioned the entire TO X project being about her own experiences. As well as the newest project, those are what I am referring to. That and the people throwing tantrums back when she was in a good situation, which she ended due to "fans" having meltdowns and sending threats. If you are thinking of INVU that project was the one she just really liked and recorded.

    No, I'm just saying this in general, it's not only about Taeyeon.


    She has her own experiences, but the problem is that people think, everything in her songs was about her. Artists use their experiences as an inspiration, their songs are not documentaries. That's what I'm saying, basically.

    Quote from crystalblues

    Okay but hear me out. Fans do not lose anything by an artist they listening to, having a life. There is no reason people should be going insane because someone is just dating someone and having a life outside of work. If you are that parasocial, then you need to rethink things on an strong internal level within yourself, not get mad and threaten people for having their own life.

    100% true.


    I was talking about the hate that idols get and all that they go through. Fans suffer too. There are depressed people and those whose lives are lit up only or mostly by other people's music etc When the person you look up to is likely to be destroyed forever or is suffering, and you need them to be ok so that you can be ok, you suffer too because they give you purpose. Without them, you feel lost and alone.


    Edit: why would a fan suffer because their fav idol has a life? ?(

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