[marriage & in-laws] SIGHㅠ I FEEL SO BAD WHEN I LOOK AT SONG JIEUN ON HER HONEY MOON~~

With someone like Song Jieun, she could definitely have married a man with a high-status jobㅜㅜWhat happened...?
Watching the honeymoon episode, seeing her struggle to drag two suitcases on her own, it just breaks my heartㅠㅠ
I was searching to see if anyone else felt the same, and there are tons of similar posts out there

"Title: Park We and Song Jieun's Jeju-do honey moon trip

In the honey moon video, Song Jieun was carrying the two heavy career luggages with both hands
Helped Park We into the car
Loading the wheelchair
Driving all by herself
Making him coffee
She was really doing all the hard work.
For a once-in-a-lifetime honeymoon, they couldn’t even go abroad"

"They ended up going to Jeju Island without a plan because of Park We

During the honeymoon, she was acting all happy and over the top, saying things like, 'This place is so great~"
But Song Jieun's (eyes) looked swollen and really tired
By the last day, when they were boarding the plane, her eyes looked empty, and she seemed f*cking exhausted

Park We was the only one excited
He didn't lift a finger
Just throwing compliments at her like "You're so pretty,"
And constantly saying ‘Hallelujah.’

As time goes on, Song Jieun is bound to have more moments of reality check"

"- Sniffle sniffle
- Wow... seriously just going on vacation to enjoy yourself is already tiring but the woman is the only one holding the luggages and driving by herself..ㅠ
- If he has a lot of money, then why is the woman doing everything??
- Seriouslyㅋㅋㅋ if she sees her friends going on their honey moons all lovey-dovey, spending a happy time and receiving the princess treatment, she's gonna get a reality checkㅋㅋㅋ
- Why did Song Jieun make this decision;;;"

post response:
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original post: here

1. [+834, -16]
(Commentor is a man) This is a rare sight where for this case, in both male-dominant and female-dominant community sites, everyone is swearing at the man and feeling bad for the woman

2. [+532, -25]
This is seriously not it

3. [+426, -24]
That's what happens when someone gets gaslit by extreme religious beliefs. It's called a savior complex, where they feel this mission or duty to save someone, as if they're a messiah. But in reality, they're just an ordinary, fragile human being. Still, they get caught up in their own self-image, and through these acts of sacrifice, they gain a sense of superiority over others.

4. [+389, -304]
Why do you guys care so much about other people's family? They will take care of their lives themselves. Just leave them alone

5. [+326, -157]
I don't know about later, but it's a marriage that they're happy with and wanted, so I wonder if it's something to criticize... She's not married to a criminal family like some others, and they love each other, so what can you do about it? Song Jieun is so pretty and the type of girl girls would like, so I guess that's made the same decision, but it's funny to see you guys swearing at them like this when you're not even living their life

[marriage & in-laws] SONG JIEUN-SSI, REALITY SEEMS TO START TO DAWN ON YOU. YOU DON'T LOOK HAPPY AT ALL

Ever since Park We's brother's controversial wedding speech (T/N: her's brother-in-law's wedding speech was under fire after portraying the bride as a health aide - read more here), and after comments started piling up criticizing them, she doesn't seem as happy as before~ I'm worried, they should be living happily togetherㅜㅜ

I also felt really sorry for Jieun, seeing her carrying all the heavy luggages alone and taking care of her sick husbandㅠㅠ Especially since it's their honeymoonㅠㅜ

Later, when Jieun was crying, it could have been out of happiness, but it still broke my heartㅠㅠ To me, it looked like she was crying because she was overwhelmed, but her husband seemed clueless, asking why she was cryingㅠㅠ

And on their honeymoon, tooㅜㅜ

On top of that, if you watch the Chuseok video, there's this woman who isn't even blood-relatedㅠㅠ and they're calling her Jieun's sister-in-lawㅜㅜ And on a holiday like Chuseok, tooㅠ

- Jieun-ah, you're crying..?
- Why are you crying..?

"First Chuseok spent at the in-laws! First meeting with the sister-in-law!

Comment: An adopted daughter? ㅋㅋㅋ If they bring in a daughter-in-law, they should at least show her some consideration… If I were the daughter-in-law, I would really hate it. Having some grown woman who's not even blood-related lounging around in pajamas during the holidays? What is that..."

post response:
[+491][-83]
original post: here

1. [+428, -13]
Park We's father says he has an adopted daughter, but does anyone actually understand that..? He really considers himself her father, and she apparently comes to their house often. But that's just his personal relationship, right? It's fascinating that his wife and son also accept this 'adopted daughter' concept.... And then telling his wife to consider this unrelated person as a sister-in-law is even weirder... No but, in a house with no sister-in-law, they bring in someone from outside and create a sister-in-law? I've never seen anything like that before;

2. [+366, -19]
No but, if that man can't drag the luggages, he should put it in a backpack or crossbody bag and move it tsk tsk, even if he's in a wheelchair, he should still try and help her from time to time

3. [+222, -87]
But to be honest, when you see a couple like this, you might feel sorry for the non-disabled woman and think it's hard for her. But shouldn't you just think to yourself, why are you spending so much emotion and time writing about it? I really wonder about the psychology of these people. Would you people do the same if Park We and Song Jieun were ugly?? You guys will never be able to ignore handsome and pretty people but the way you guys think that you can comment on them because they are disabled is honest... It's really heartless... I don't understand why you guys have to cross the line thinking whether their lives are hard or not... There are so many kind of lives in the world. Let's just respect it for what it is and live our lives. Is there a perfect life in the world? How would you feel if someone better than you looked down you and felt sorry for you..? Just get on with your life.

4. [+190, -34]
Why are you taking screencaps of a video of her crying before their marriage?

5. [+110, -27]
When it actually happens, it becomes reality