Tbh Korean Male Idols getting called “gay” and “are they women” is one of the reasons I never talk to any IRLs about kpop.
It’s annoying af. And ignorant as well.
But at the same time kpop fans themselves have no problem emasculating their fav BG’s whether it’s feminizing the “shorter” or “thinner” idols or assigning sexual positions like “bottom” or fully straight hetero women calling the idols “twinks” and idk it’s just weird.
Tbh I have no problem with what you write in fanfics and in your own fictional versions of idols but when you project these sentiments on real people and think it’s their real personality and behave like a crazy person when they differ from the archetype you have in your head, well that’s weird af. Seek help.
Okay thanks for attending my Ted talk.
