Would you date your bias if they showed an interest in you

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  • Yes but I'd fake a death before doing that


    because then I'd need to be untraceable...


    to the sasengs that'd come after me.

  • Dating a celebrity must be awful so no. I would agree on a one night stand tho.

  • No freaking way, I am a minor and I am straight. I would unstan.

  • I'm not into that kind of stuff.


    But, even if I was, they are too young and tbh.... you know that "Never meet you heroes"? Yeah, well. In this case I would like to adjust it to "never date your idols". Tbh I wouldn't even want to befriend my idol either, much less meet them, much less date them. I feel like if I got to know them on that level then they wouldn't even be my idol anymore.

  • even hypothetically - No.


    My admiration for them is based on illusionary romanticism of what they present in the public.

    Knowing them intimately - warts, farts etc., - will destroy that nice illusion.

    But yes, they will sure many appealing qualities too, so do millions of other potential partners.


    So I rather keep my illusionary romance with the celeb, but the actual one with someone real. Than both from the celeb and risk losing both.


    Recently met an older person who was pissed about an interview where the IT girl of his teenage, who is now in her 50s was talked about her ailments. He did not want to know about such stuff, she was a part of his youth and he wanted to remember her in all her glowing sexy beauty. Not as a real person complaining about knee pains and diabetes.


    fan/stan etc. is a nice little escapism, I rather keep it separate from reality - both have their joys, but best not to mix them.

  • while I would probably say no, ngl telling others you once dated jungkook, a popular member of the biggest boyband of their times would be such a brag.

  • A one night stand would be nice or maybe a booty call once in a while if my bias is in my city and we really hit it off. But no, I don't want to date my bias lol. Heartbreak + sasaengs = massive complications. I wouldn't want that inflicted on me.

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