Does that justify Nami to screenshot the SS to laugh at my friend for simply have a different opinion? Without my friend's consent? Does that justify to dump all the messy ahgases onto my friend to get the flack? Does that justify Nami to still say "Its funny" when my friend is having an anxiety tantrum because things that is supposed to be private were shared without her consent?
This is the problem. Ahgases is messy in general but out of that, nothing justifies the goldeness coming to my friend and laugh at her genuine opinion about KOMS. She was dismissed with "Its funny" when Nami could have just agree to disagree in the DM and leave it there. But she had to share it for the laughs and unfortunately she does that to my friend who has high anxiety so repercussion is much more.
Its not even about the fandoms anymore, it became a personal attack to my friend. That is what it felt to her. To be fair 2 other Goldeness came to her, was nice and the Goldeness wanted to share the DMs so that things calm down, so my friend gave her consent. That's fine. Nami didn't ask for consent, intended it for laughing and when my friend went to her, she didn't feel remorse (I personally think she did though but my friend was emotional).
Let us summarize something.
Let's say that user Nami really did attack your friend. And here we can say that there is only one victim (though there is an evidence by a Ness that Nami censored the name). However, the fact that you generalized the whole fandom and attacked us with irresponsible claims have made a greater damage.
You said that Goldenness sent death threats. Where is the ss? Please stop saying that you're not going to release it to save a friend or to control the damage. Death threats is a serious matter, you cannot just use it to appeal to the audience.
If it's 'personal attack' why are you accusing the whole fandom? If a person misbehaves is it the fandom's problem? Can a fandom control a person? Why you brought a personal problem in this forum and claimed that "Goldenness are bullies"?