Posts by tann93gncd

    Does that justify Nami to screenshot the SS to laugh at my friend for simply have a different opinion? Without my friend's consent? Does that justify to dump all the messy ahgases onto my friend to get the flack? Does that justify Nami to still say "Its funny" when my friend is having an anxiety tantrum because things that is supposed to be private were shared without her consent?


    This is the problem. Ahgases is messy in general but out of that, nothing justifies the goldeness coming to my friend and laugh at her genuine opinion about KOMS. She was dismissed with "Its funny" when Nami could have just agree to disagree in the DM and leave it there. But she had to share it for the laughs and unfortunately she does that to my friend who has high anxiety so repercussion is much more.


    Its not even about the fandoms anymore, it became a personal attack to my friend. That is what it felt to her. To be fair 2 other Goldeness came to her, was nice and the Goldeness wanted to share the DMs so that things calm down, so my friend gave her consent. That's fine. Nami didn't ask for consent, intended it for laughing and when my friend went to her, she didn't feel remorse (I personally think she did though but my friend was emotional).

    Let us summarize something.


    Let's say that user Nami really did attack your friend. And here we can say that there is only one victim (though there is an evidence by a Ness that Nami censored the name). However, the fact that you generalized the whole fandom and attacked us with irresponsible claims have made a greater damage.


    You said that Goldenness sent death threats. Where is the ss? Please stop saying that you're not going to release it to save a friend or to control the damage. Death threats is a serious matter, you cannot just use it to appeal to the audience.


    If it's 'personal attack' why are you accusing the whole fandom? If a person misbehaves is it the fandom's problem? Can a fandom control a person? Why you brought a personal problem in this forum and claimed that "Goldenness are bullies"?

    Hello, I'm a goldenness. I'm genuinely shocked to see this post. First of all, let me explain.


    1. Aroha being 'bullied' by us


    I dont know which poll you mentioned but there was not a single poll where we won cuz we are smaller than Aroha.

    'After midnight' (Astro's mv) & 'Ra Pam Pam' (Golcha's mv) were released at the same time. AM has more views than RPP from the beginning. But after 2 days when our views started to increase at a steady rate and AM view increasing rate slowed down, some of Aroha started attacking us. "They are thrice nugu than Astro how come they hv so many views" "They are cheaters" and so on. We knew that in every fam there are some problematic fans so we didn't mind it rather told them not to cancel our hard work (every Ness streams very hard as it's the only way to us). Other Arohas quickly responded it and told us not to mind them. Thus this problem was solved.

    What we did was simply telling that we worked hard so why our success will be counted as cheating. Not to mention when they called Golcha as 'milktea group' we took it jokingly. Is this called bullying ?


    2. Ahgase problem


    JB is an senior. Ofc he is someone to be respected. Goldenness is a small fandom. So when Seungmin won we were very happy as we usually lose against bigger fandoms. Not a single Ness downgraded JB. But suddenly one ahgase twted "That Red hair guy (Baemin) sang more lines so he won" "This show is weird". We were just disappointed that why they told Baemin isn't talented. Woollim groups are always good at vocal. Even their rappers can sing well.

    Pls give us the prove that one Ness bullied an Ahgase so that we can educate him/her/them. If that incident truly happened, we deeply apologize.

    But our humble request is that pls don't jump to the conclusion. Every fam has some problematic ones. Just for one or two, a fandom shouldn't be generalized.



    Thank you so much for taking this matter into public. Our fam will be more mature. Hope the truth will lead to the conclusion. Have a nice day.