Posts by yesni

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Yes.... bossy dominate females/men in the industry, usually with deeper voices.

That’s what’s up Moonbyul Hip era serving mad daddy vibes. I’m melting.

Kpop idols are scrutinized to the max. I honestly don’t know what’s worse tbh. I mean, they can’t do shit without catching flack for it.

*cough* hwasa 2018 MAMA outfit. basically hwasa any outfit. Take any kpop idol and I’m sure you can find something dumb they’ve been criticized for.

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if only moomoo's paid attention to mamamoo instead of obsessing over bp

You wish bébé

I’m speechless as to the level of bad this is 🤭 ... even the rap part is quite shite if I’m to be honest. I had no idea she was that bad live.

Spotify is no.1 for me. I tried Apple Music and Tidal but I just didn’t like it... the curated playlists on Apple Music are really good but the design of the app, the annoying ‘offline play’ that always bugs on my phone and the lack of international artists really made me delete delete delete.

Spotify for me is like paying my rent — it’s mandatory

I highly recommend either Mizon UV Sun Protector Cream SPF 50+ or SVR Sebiaclear Creme SPF50 with added Gluconolactone and 4% Niacinamide. Both of those are bomb products.

Ugh me too fam... I’m also gay so that might explain it

Ngl been streaming this gem every day She looks so good and happy!!

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TWICE more and more I like the chorus but not the rest

This is the first song that came to mind! The chorus is killer but the rest really is meh..

I swear this pandemic is handing out Darwin awards like nobody’s business

That gigantic leap between BTS and Blackpink... It’s pretty damn impressive ngl.

Moomoos we’re doing pretty good tho? I often read complaints about us not streaming

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Yes I don’t think this is that odd? Even for international fans. I only stan one group and it already takes a ton of my time, lmao. There really is a big difference between stanning and being a fan of a group. I like having a life outside of K-pop too.

It would be popular but not to the extent that it is today. At least IMO.

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care less about what

About what people think.

Oh my god yesssss I’m here for it!! Let’s get this year started.

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Yes, K-Pop fans make me even more insecure about aging tbh, like ageism is everywhere but I've never encountered so much fixation on age as among K-Pop fans anywhere else.

A lot of it is also pretty misogynist (oddly mostly coming from stans claiming to be "woke" and "feminist"... Like how exactly are you "feminist" except for virtue signalling in your bio when you act like this?), e.g. telling female idols they're old and should retire while still babying male idols older than them, also as for age gaps in dramas many seem to dislike drama couples where the woman is older more (just having the term "noona drama" for that while the other way round it's just a standard romance is weird, even weirder is that there's quite a few people refusing to watch any "noona drama" even when the age difference is pretty small actually

How horrendous! I didn’t know it was that bad.

Very interesting indeed. But I’ve also noticed that I tend to like girl groups that are closer to my own age and have a more mature style. Think RV and MAMAMOO. Meanwhile I’d never listen to Blackpink or I don’t know... ITZY? At least for me it goes both ways. Or maybe I’m completely wrong.

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So many times have I seen people arguing over arguing, arguing about different things, dismissing others opinions willy-nilly, using words which could be considered insults or otherwise not helpful to the argument.

Therefore I've created this thread that people may contribute their methods and means of making a proper argument.

Firstly I say argument I don't mean argue like you're trying to win - there is nothing gained by winning - the point of an argument here is to further debate and to create a better understanding of another's perspective.

1. don't use words like delulu or delusional or wrong/right - they don't further the argument and will only seek to antagonize the other party.

2. listen more than you talk but in forum - read and think more than you write or rather read and think before you write.

3. ask questions always - a lot of times the argument goes off track because the parties are misunderstanding the others perspectives thus ask questions like why do you think this, how, what does it mean etc

4. focus on the semantics - that is the presuppositions and implications underlying the argument - a lot of times people are arguing over different things because they don't understand the background, the meaning behind the actual argument they see only the argument they want to see.

5. accept the other's point of view - so many times we think of us vs them attitude. No one is always right and no one is always wrong thus you can acknowledge another's perspective when they make a fair point that actually shows you are reading and thinking.

There's plenty more but yeah feel free to share your own views on what makes a proper/better argument/discussion

Always seek flaws within thyself instead of blaming others.

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I think point 5 is especially important. To be able to see from the other person’s point of view is the essence of having a good and productive discussion. Unfortunately I don’t think many people, especially online and within K-pop fandoms, will follow any advice like this. lol

Hearing this broke my heart. MB seems like such a genuine and kind person. People that lash out because of jealousy are THE WORST. I’m so happy knowing they’ve got her back straight away in situations like this.