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I had an Indian friend who also had strict parents as well and would not get him date so he thought of an idea and slowly left hints to his parents that he might be gay. The straw that broke the camel's back was that he "accidentally" left either a gay porn magazine in his room or had his computer left on a gay porn website or something but that freaked his parents out and when they went to speak to him he said "yeah i dunno if I was gay or not so i wanted to double check...I still like looking at girls but...I have never dated before so I don't know" - that shook his parents and when my friend then raised the idea of dating a girl his parents were like "fuck yeah he's straight go for it"!!!!

(it might be different since you're a girl) but what do conservative parents hate more than dating - dating the wrong gender!!!!

the idea was gold lol :D .I still haven't even turned 20 yet so i can't even think of doing anything like this. Hopefully I don't get caught too soon :P

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5 years wow

any psrticulsr reason why

if you dont want to share thats ok i wont press i

edit: should have read furthrr haha

anyways my aunty was also super strict as well

there was one time where my cousin (who is male) had a male friend over but the friend had long hair

my aunty thought it was a girl and went to the kitchen to grab one of butchers knives that you cut meat with to scare 'her'

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I just imagined that happening . The worst that is gonna happen with me is them forcing me to break things up and confiscate/hijack my sns. smh

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Quote from kingkook

you've known him since you were 4? that's cute. I'm pretty sure they'll understand once you reach a certain age. It's just that you're still young and feel like you need to mature enough to be in a relationship. you know typical Indian parents stuff . So don't get stressed over whether your parents will accept your relationship or not. After all they love you. They can't reject what your heart follows.

i feel good after reading it. Thanks Again

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well my advice would be that it's better to keep it a secret and never let your parents know about it until you reach a certain age. this is pretty much stuff you already might know. also try avoiding texts or calls from your boyfriend bc they are better chances of getting caught that way. It's better to keep your relationship and all the interaction during school or college hours only. I know there's a pandemic going on, so it's tough to follow this advice but be careful.

thank you for the advice . But the thing is we've known each other and are classmates (and are going to go to the same college after pandemic) since forever (like, literally since I was 4) and our parents know each other since his and my dad work at same place. We even live nearby and i'm 90% sure that his mom has her suspicions about us (another story) and they won't be that supportive either. so i dont know if I should tell them when things get way too worse or let things go by flow.

(sorry for the rant)

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are you Indian? your situation seems pretty familiar

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Why?are they really strict? 🤔

They are so conventional that I can't even tell them that i'm friends with a guy or texting a guy without them side-eyeing me and it doesn't help that fact that boy to girl ratio in my class is 28:2, so much for being in topper batch.

i have a boyfriend ,it's been 5 yrs and i'm too afraid to tell my parents about him

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