Posts by soshilovelife

Quote from nanako_daniel

there are highly attractive ppl too

but whatever floats their boat

i am just sad for their partner

Sometimes there is more going on behind a decision to settle down than whatever others can see. People know their reasons for making those choices.

Quote from summerbreezy

SuperM is a PR group collab put together by SM and Capital Records to promote SM artists and that's it. Everybody in that group already has a main group. They were hand picked for their talent and personalities to promote all things SM including their first groups and solo work. They are not going anywhere and others in that company will get inserted from SM as needed. They are brand ambassadors and get paid very well for their efforts. Explanation is all in the contract with both companies.

Do you happen to know how long are they supposed to bee in the group as per said contract?

Quote from nanako_daniel

what is too high? most ppl are not nice so asking someone to be nice is already a high bar

It can be arranged and there are nice people in the world too.

Quote from selfmate

I completely agree about balance but i think the difference between settling and simmering one's expectations is that there are literally girls that say I want a guy over 6 feet nothing less (when they are themselves like less than 5'2 or something) and then they a guy who has most other characteristics but don't meet the height requirement and so the girl rejects him - ie simmering one's expectations.

Thsi is a good example of what I meant.

Yay!!! SUJU thread is on

A question: isn't it supposed to say that Kangin is a former member too?

If you place the bar too high nobody will ever rise to meet the standards. And sometimes last minute choices are just a blessing in disguise. A lot of factors play a part on why people settle down.

In the old old forums someone had a sig that say "Soshi is love, Soshi is life." I am a SONE and I totally agree with them.

Into the new world (ballad version) - SNSD sang this song in their Tokyo Dome concert, a long caressed dream and an incredible achievement for a gg at the time. However, they lost Jessica in the process, so when they sang this song again emotions were high and they were crying, like every SONE out there.

Promise - EXO composed and sang this song after the three Chinese members left. They performing this song while crying will make you cry too.

The Light - the story of this song is just heartbreaking

I'm fine thank you - When Ladies' Code had that car accident where they lost two members this song gain a whole new meaning.

Oh I hate how their schedules get in the way of the schedules of every group the members come from.

But I like te music enough. They helped me enjoy a bg comeback given that my faves were no having a full group comeback (their solos and sub-units were amazing) last year.

I just wish SM knew what they are doing because they are all talented and none deserve that degree of embarrassment they are being put through.

Quote from omnimorphism

I don't hide it, but I also don't advertise it. If they asked me I would tell them. I have solid arguments for liking it. If they don't want to hear them and want to misjudge me, then F them.

Once you stop caring about others' judging your tastes it's life-changing.

Same.

Quote from Versatile

need... more....

Of course, one can't never get enough Seohyun :P

SNDS - I got a boy, One last time

Big Bang -If you

Oh my girl - Closer

Red Velvet - One of these nights

EXO - Mama, Wolf, Monster, Growl, Power, Obsession

f(x) - Rum Pum Pum, Electric Shock

And many more that may abound out there and I just don't know

She's perfection from head to toe, don't you think so @Versatile?

There was a news Kai's fandom also donated to support the treatment of children with cancer.

Yep! You never know is incredibly good and Stay is really nice

Quote from JiminieKookie

Everyone knows their names are Xang Yixing and Kim Jeongin but why do you all call them Lay Xang and Kim Kai ?

Jongin

I don't really know why they are called that way, although Yixing's username on IG is layzhang and I don't know if Kai has called himself Kim Kai or if it is something fans call them.

Quote from hopemin

those are their stage names? it's not like it's specifically an exo-l thing. people call j-hope, j-hope, even though his name is hoseok. people call young k, young k, even though his real name is younghyun. people call key, key, even though his real name is kibum.

and it's zhang yixing and kim jongin btw

Yes. Lay is Zhang Yixing and Kai is Kim Jongin. But I guess you figured that out already.

And I don't really know but I have noticed that EXO themselves call each other by their real names rather than their stage names most of the times. Maybe the fans caught up with that.

I do remember having a lot of trouble knowing who they were talking about when I first got into the fandom because fans would use their real names rather than the stage names.

And when EXO cheers on each other on concerts or play games they tend to use their real and stage names indifferently. So it can get confusing.

And you didn't ask but these are the real names of the EXO members

Xiumin - Kim Minseok

Suho - Kim Junmyeon

Chen - Kim Jongdae

D.O. - Do Kyungsoo

You already know Kai's and Lay's. Baekhyun, Chanyeol and Sehun go by their real names. Just to avoid furhter confusion.

Quote from Tic_tac_toe

I didn’t realize the MOD of this forum was ripiasuju that explains so much and the reply on this thread. I think it’s time for me to leave this forum indeed. Lol.

Nooooooo. I know you don't mean it but I need to say it anyway.

SNSD and 2NE1

well congrats!

I hope its true. I hope the EXO comeback is happening before that too. And yes Baek will be enlisted by then I guess

And also hi, I'm the same old soshilovelife ina new environment. Still adjusting...