My bestie is 14 and dating a 15 y.o guy, she's in 8th grade and he's in 10th. I haven't dated so i was curious, is it fine to date someone two grades above you and 1 and a half years older?
I don't wanna come off as intrusive, but i'm just wondering since i dont really see it a lot outside of movies lol
My bestie is 14 and dating a 15 y.o guy, she's in 8th grade and he's in 10th. I haven't dated so i was curious, is it fine to date someone two grades above you and 1 and a half years older?
I don't wanna come off as intrusive, but i'm just wondering since i dont really see it a lot outside of movies lol
Its fine. Not that much of a big deal.
What's not ok is if the guy is a adult / of legal age dating a minor.
Of course it is as long as the male is under 18
Omg
Idk my other friends acted rlly surprised when she said she was dating a 10th grader, thanks for the reply btw
Idk my other friends acted rlly surprised when she said she was dating a 10th grader, thanks for the reply btw
haha maybe cause u guys are still young but it's normal and u're welcome 
omg y'all so young
When i turned 18, my girlfriend was still 17 
Not really surprising in this day and age
That is fine
Omg jail
Jk
Afaik it's allowed in my country if we were in a relationship already before I turned 18
Afaik it's allowed in my country if we were in a relationship already before I turned 18
I was just kidding 
damn didnt know kids this young were on the forum 
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For seriousness, in short, it is not a problem as long as BOTH are COMFORTABLE with it. However, let's say they do break up and there's another guy that's 18+ and both started talking, I would advise her to tread carefully. Because he would be considered an adult. If he's that age, he shouldn't go after a minor anyhow. If it happens, he would be dating a minor (of course depending on states/country law you're in).
For all those comments you read regarding 'you don't only date in your age range' type of comments, I would like to point out that yes, when you matured later on, age comes with experience and you'll figure out by yourself that as long as you're happy, safe, and comfortable, dating someone younger or older does not matter. HOWEVER, that is only if both parties are considered adult already. I don't want you to get the wrong ideas from these similar comments that since its ok to date someone not your age group, a 14 years old can date someone who's 20+ years old.
1. As long as she's OK with it and the person wasn't an adult from the get go.
2. Consent is sexy.
3. Use protection.
4. It's also OK not to date anyone or try to find anyone until you're ready/comfortable.
5. Don't follow the general trend that just because people around you are dating, you will have to, too.
Lmao why would u come to this den of virgins and social outcasts for relationship advice? Speak to someone who you trust, like a family member or even a school therapist.
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For seriousness, in short, it is not a problem as long as BOTH are COMFORTABLE with it. However, let's say they do break up and there's another guy that's 18+ and both started talking, I would advise her to tread carefully. Because he would be considered an adult. If he's that age, he shouldn't go after a minor anyhow. If it happens, he would be dating a minor (of course depending on states/country law you're in).
For all those comments you read regarding 'you don't only date in your age range' type of comments, I would like to point out that yes, when you matured later on, age comes with experience and you'll figure out by yourself that as long as you're happy, safe, and comfortable, dating someone younger or older does not matter. HOWEVER, that is only if both parties are considered adult already. I don't want you to get the wrong ideas from these similar comments that since its ok to date someone not your age group, a 14 years old can date someone who's 20+ years old.
1. As long as she's OK with it and the person wasn't an adult from the get go.
2. Consent is sexy.
3. Use protection.
4. It's also OK not to date anyone or try to find anyone until you're ready/comfortable.
5. Don't follow the general trend that just because people around you are dating, you will have to, too.
Ahh, the doctor is in. Please advise where you got your PHD from.
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it's fine and if you're adults dating people with more than 
