Holland talks to VICE about how LGBTQ community is treated in Korea and how is doing as open gay idol in Korea

    He is very brave on coming out as first gay idol. I wish they would let him perform on music shows or let him appear on Korean varieties. Korea is still very conservative country. :pepe-sad:


    I just don't understand why people care about other people's sexualities and sexual identities. So what if some people like men and women?!! Men are handsome and women are pretty.


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  • JaSida

    Changed the title of the thread from “Holland talks to VICE about how LGBTQ community is treated in Korea” to “Holland talks to VICE about how LGBTQ community is treated in Korea and how is doing as open gay idol”.

    This is why I don't like people speculating about idols sexualities too much. People are treated so badly in SK for being gay yet they are desperately trying to find hints about idols they like.


    Holland is very brave.

    Quote from BlinkNation

    This is why I don't like people speculating about idols sexualities too much. People are treated so badly in SK for being gay yet they are desperately trying to find hints about idols they like.


    Holland is very brave.

    I don't understand how you can ship same sex couples in groups but hate it when they are actually part of LGBTQ+ community. The whole gay fanservice I will never understand how they eat that up but oh no my idol can't be gay in real life.

  • JaSida

    Changed the title of the thread from “Holland talks to VICE about how LGBTQ community is treated in Korea and how is doing as open gay idol” to “Holland talks to VICE about how LGBTQ community is treated in Korea and how is doing as open gay idol in Korea”.
    Quote from dummi

    I read somewhere that fan girls don't necessarily want their idols to be gay, but that since they like guys and dont want girls to interfere, they ship them together because two guys is better than one. It's very strange and often how fujoshis are too

    :pepewhat: That's really twisted. Those fans don't want those male idols to date girls because those fans want to date them so they ship them with their same sex members.

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    Korea like you said is largely conservative, and since there are more old people than young people the close-minded elders are the ones running the show I'd say. This is all just my thoughts though, reality might be different. It's strange to me too how and why people care about others' sexuality, that is unless they are questioning their own

    This! Many young Koreans are open to lgbtq community but unfortunately it is ruled by elders who are conservative. This is the same thing that is happening in India.

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    Its so freaking weird, creepy and unhinged

    I wish these people would get a life, they ruin friendships and relationships of idols

    I also think that Korean entertainment companies are encouraging idols to do gay service because like you said fans love when idols do gay service. Plus it also helps when rumors of idols dating the opposite sex are revealed. It's really funny when their fans say but my oppa doesn't have interest in girls and my oppa is gay so he can't have a girlfriend.

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    Quote from JaSida

    I don't understand how you can ship same sex couples in groups but hate it when they are actually part of LGBTQ+ community. The whole gay fanservice I will never understand how they eat that up but oh no my idol can't be gay in real life.

    Exactly. It's frustrating, especially because when actual artists from the community comes up, then they're paid dust.

    People love the fantasy, but not the reality.

    Quote from dummi

    I don't doubt for a second that oppa isn't a celibate monk, like holy shit that has to be the funniest thing fans do is push this narrative that oppa doesn't even know what sex and relationships are. This simultaneously babies them and locks them into the position of "my gay cute oppa" for these fans. Idols are caught ogling at women during award shows and fans will be found saying "awee he's so shy!" anything to erase the idea that oppa is hetero. These companies need to be burned down LMAO

    Companies definitely encourage this type of behavior from their idols. It's classic queer baiting to tantalize the fans, while still leaving them "available" in their minds.

    But if it ever comes out about an idol being part of the lgbt+ community I have no doubt in my mind they would be out of the industry in a blink!

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    Companies definitely encourage this type of behavior from their idols. It's classic queer baiting to tantalize the fans, while still leaving them "available" in their minds.

    But if it ever comes out about an idol being part of the lgbt+ community I have no doubt in my mind they would be out of the industry in a blink!

    K pop companies push ships so much, it encourages delusional fans. For example, I knew the Seulgi and Irene MV would have "moments". But there is zero actual representation and support from the industry, it's just baiting.

    Quote from dummi

    absolutely it's all marketing. these idols are disposable to their companies, just look at what happened to the JYP trainee who was found to be gay and got kicked out like all those years he spent training meant nothing

    Definitely. I have no doubt that most of these idols are just numbers in someone's spreadsheet. And if that number goes negative, for any reason, then they are crossed without any reservation. We really see this all the time.


    Quote from BlinkNation

    K pop companies push ships so much, it encourages delusional fans. For example, I knew the Seulgi and Irene MV would have "moments". But there is zero actual representation and support from the industry, it's just baiting.

    The kpop industry does this A LOT, but still leaves plausible deniability for when anyone questions it. They use representation as "concepts".

    I can only imagine the stress and pressure for a closeted idol to have to play pretend with their identity and still having to deny it at the end of the day.

    Quote from BlinkNation

    K pop companies push ships so much, it encourages delusional fans. For example, I knew the Seulgi and Irene MV would have "moments". But there is zero actual representation and support from the industry, it's just baiting.

    Exactly. However there are some idols who are truly close friends and everything they do like talk to each other, touch a little and look at each other turns to fanfics and wattpad stories.

    Quote from JaSida

    Exactly. However there are some idols are truly close friends and everything they do like talk to each other, touch a little and look at each other turns to fanfics and wattpad stories.

    Companies push ships all the time. For example, in BP, Jensoo and Chaelisa have been put together since the beginning and had "moments" that are scripted. I feel bad for them having to act a certain way, and BP don't even do it much compared to most GG or BG. But the fact people take fan service as proof idols are dating each other or aren't straight is insane!


    There are other groups that use it as concepts in their videos and fans praise their "gay kings" or "lesbian queens" even though it isn't close to representation.

    what i will say is each generation will generally be more open and accepting than the previous...as more information and less stigma is attached to certain things

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