I’ve been away for a couple of years and heard there was a revamp so decided to check it out.
Posts by MY-Kwangya
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Listening to it. Most of the fans I could talk to about older Gen groups don’t exist anymore and I’m a little too old for that anyway.
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Groups but even that’s waning a little bit now, not as passionate, just listen to the music once in a while but mainly older groups.
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It has changed only because I’ve gotten older and my tastes have changed. I’m more of a casual listener nowadays rather than stanning any group. I guess I’ve grown out of it after so long.
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I’ve been here on and off since 2016 and I found this place very toxic in the past. Fans would argue about anything and start fanwars over trivial things. They were mainly youngsters who were a bit ignorant and would get so triggered by even the slightest comment of their biases.
Now it’s virtually non existent in the little time I’ve spent with the revamp. That’s one of the reasons I left a couple of years ago is the toxicity of the place. I do miss some of the old users particularly the ELFS.
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Birthdays are just another day for me, another year of getting older. I’ll be 53 in August and sometimes feel it.
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It was SuJu for about 8 years but I don’t stan them anymore. I still listen to their music occasionally.
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Same. I’ve been involved in scuffles with some individuals especially on the old set up. They can’t accept a difference in opinion/view and keep replying when I’ve told them to stop. In the end I didn’t bother anymore and blocked them. I’m not going to cop a warning or a ban on their part. I suppose it’s just a generation gap thing as I’m a person of considerable age and life experience, they were intimidated by me. I won’t waste my energy on such people.
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None of them. I prefer healthy food.
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Same. Even though I have a partner, it’s just commercialised hype like Christmas and Easter.
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Just cleanser every morning in the shower. I’ve still got quite skin for a 50 something.
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Tell me about it. I’m 5 foot and have hated all my life. It’s my biggest insecurity and it’s always so noticeable. Being cursed with a shy disposition isn’t a good combination. It’s hard to reach up high shelves in the supermarket, never find the right fitting clothes, always having to show ID (though isn’t a problem at 52), people having to bend down to hug you. I could go on forever. My sister is tall and I’ve always been jealous of that. Also, forgot to mention the bookends in school photos. It sucks and I hate it but unfortunately come from the short side of the family. Another downside is looking younger, also not really a problem now. Oh to be taller.
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The Lounge mostly.
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Chill bro just enjoy life!
I’ve hardly got much to enjoy when I’ve just lost my father thank you. Be kind.
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Be active.
I would if this place had some more life but it never has and I do have a life other than internet. Please stop arguing with me.! I’m just stating my opinion.
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I’m not being a jerk actually. All I’m saying is as a very long time user here it’s not fair that I have to claw my way up to the place I was just because of some revamp. The same thing happened a few years ago when mods deleted everyone’s posts. I lost about 100 and it took me several months to get back all because I’m a more low key user plus there wasn’t anything worth posting on. It’s unfair imo for the less active people.
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your about to get banned for that lol, jk
Well that wouldn’t surprise me as on the old forum you could get banned for just speaking your mind.
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I’m less than that. the rules are unfair imo.