[instiz] OP asks if she should DM her boyfriends female friend

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    He had this super close female friend he had before dating me, who got on my nerves, and during her birthday, my boyfriend was talking about wanting to gift her something, but I told him to cancel her gift? But this time, my lover had his birthday and the female friend sent him a Starbucks gift card as a birthday gift and wrote something like "I hope you break up soon~". Should I DM her something?


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    1. Just hold it in...


    2. So you actually made him cancel his gift for her...ㅜㅜ
    > Yeah OP is kinda... Damn..


    3. Don't send it


    4. If I were you and some female friend of his told him to break up? It's 100% clear that you guys will fight over this in the future


    5. What got on your nerves about her in the first place??


    6. I feel like if you send her anything, she'll be building a case against you. She'll pretend to be the victim to people around him, and you'll end up looking like the weird one


    7. Why are both of them like that......


    8. Why would you make him cancel his gift for her...?


    9. Why would you tell him to cancel his gift for his female friend? That alone will make her keep an eye on you from the start. If it's simply because she's a "female" friend of his, then OP, you are way too sensitive. And if you send her a DM now, it'll feel like you're picking a fight with her first


    10. Cancelling the gift ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ... You're the first one to offend her, so don't act like you're doing something right here

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  • Cancelling the gift ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ... You're the first one to offend her, so don't act like you're doing something right here

    Yup lol and the reason he got the gift with that message was because she likely found out what happened to her gift. Girls can be real spiteful 😂. Now the message also could have been a crass joke, especially if these two are good close friends, you being the outsider to that relationship might see their responses to one another to be bad. Also it looks like she found his gift and the message without his knowledge.

    Girl is red flag material

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