How to cope up with the hatred towards your ult group's fandom?

Like you love this group with your whole heart and are like your comfort zone but the moment you see their fandom the same heart starts boiling. You feel like saying cruel things to your own favourite group to see the fandom cry but internally would hate yourself for saying those things. Now you may ask why do I hate this fandom so much but when a bunch of pathetic people from the fandom had once constantly harrassed you online, you can't help but associate the whole fandom with that pathetic group.

It's got to a point that I refuse to even see the comment section whenever I watch their content on YT. That's how much I dislike seeing any post from that fandom but I do acknowledge this is definitely not healthy.

What do I do about this? I know I should be ashamed for feeling this way, but I can't help it.

At the end of the day you got to make a choice, do you like this group or are you now obsessed with their fandom and what randpms online have to say?

If it's the former then ignore the morons. If it's the latter then tbh you're the moron who is into kpop for the wrong reasons and no different from the haters

Don’t get involved with the fandom. It’s the artists that are important not the fandom.

I stop caring long ago bc whatever is written here or twitter doesn't translate to reality

There are some nasty people in the fandom of my ults so I just focus on supporting the group and staying away from the fandom. I am into the group for the music, I don't have to be a part of the fandom to enjoy it.

It's up to you to make the choice on whether you will focus on the group and ignore the fandom or focus on the fandom and let the toxicity push you away from a group you love.