Posts by kahei
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I mean I don't think it's just one user, though? That's why I was speaking generally. I'm sorry if my post came off as me targeting you and only you.
It's not rocket science. If you want to create a praise thread without conflict, then maybe don't directly compare your group to literally every other group EVER in the thread.
I just don't see it as that big of a deal, it's just a hyperbole. I get why there is pushback, but I think there are definitely better ways users can talk about their disagreements. Or just end up agreeing to disagree after some discussion.
Again, not rocket science, so don't sit there trying to act like I'm doing anything but calling out hyperbolic nonsense when I see it.
I don't know what you think I'm doing other than finding amusement in MULTIPLE users who, in my own personal opinion, are being dramatic with how they choose to respond to a different opinion. Hyperbolic nonsense is just hyperbolic nonsense, I just don't see a point in MULTIPLE users reacting so intensely to it.
Not everyone is trying to attack you specifically, even though it may feel that way. And even if you don't believe me when I say my post wasn't targeted to only you, I still wasn't trying to be super antagonistic or anything. I just disagree with the approaches MULTIPLE users are taking. Not everything has to be a battle.
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I agree with the overall sentiment of the thread.
I just find it funny how people get so pressed and dramatic so easily. Like if you disagree, that's cool, but I personally was way more impressed with AESPA's concepts than I was with NewJeans' stuff. I wasn't the biggest fan of Whiplash, simply because of the song itself, but the concept and marketing was still great.
NewJeans' stuff was also great and I liked it too, I really wanted to stan them at first. I mean, I don't stan AESPA either, but I still listen to AESPA songs whereas I don't listen to any NewJeans songs. But that's just my personal taste.
KPop stans see others being hyperbolic and start throwing up
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look I understand in certain families especially for the less fortunate - where like people are living paycheck to paychek but still have to rely on foods stamps and even food banks and the like but even down under I know of fathers who don't know how to change a diaper and don't know how to use a bottle to feed their kid
That kind of stuff is malicious ignorance. They just refuse to learn and make tons of excuses why it's "too hard" and repeat that they just don't know how so that they can push it onto their partner to do. Or they'll purposely do things wrong multiple times until their partner caves in and gives up. Sigh.
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You mean Jesus Christ had cognitive dissonance when he said "Hate the sin, love the sinner"?
US citizens could very well hate "Illegal immigration" as a dynamic, who are largely Latinos, yet can be friends individually with many Latinos.
That is not dissonance, but nuance and knowing that people are not single dimensional, but have many facets.
Only those incapable of nuance, would call that dissonance.
Or ideologies and individuals, one could despise Islam or Jainism, but can respect individual Muslims/Jains. Not dissonance.
Of course the inability to be nuanced exists on both sides - left & right.
Right fringe will be bigots for they hate individuals in the name of hating ideologies
Left will be bigots by demanding ideologies be loved in the name of loving individuals.
If at all, it is the lack of nuance "with me-all in OR against me" that makes bigots, not left/right, love/hate.
Well, I'm an Atheist so... Can't really respond to the Jesus thing since I don't believe he existed to actually say that. And considering the amount of racism this entire world has - I think many (not all) people hate both the sin and the sinners.
And yes, I agree that US citizens could hate illegal immigration and still be nice to Latinos. But that's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about Trump specifically, not the larger American population. Also, Trump is not just trying to end illegal immigration, he also wants to revoke birthright citizenship, which I am STRONGLY against and I personally believe that the desire to revoke such an amendment is rooted in racism and xenophobia. The reason I was speaking generally in my original post is because I don't think Trump is the ONLY person who follows that kind of mindset, but I was mostly responding about Trump.
People saying they love Latinos - or any other immigrant - yet going out of their way to oppress them is cognitive dissonance. Their words don't match their actions.
I'm not demanding anything and I do understand nuance. I understand why people are uncomfortable with the amount of illegal immigration. I don't think that anyone is a bad person for not being okay with illegal immigration. But at the same time, Trump trying to get rid of laws such as birthright citizenship is a way to oppress groups like Latinos and uproot their lives because of xenophobia.
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“But You Are One of the Good Ones”: A Short, Personal Insight into Racism in the UKAn insight into encounters with racism in the United Kingdom and what it means to grow up mixed race. Entirely based on opinion/experience.medium.com
This piece doesn't pertain to Trump or even the United States but the concept remains the same.
People can still be racist and misogynistic while also interacting, working with, or even LOVING people of color or women. It's cognitive dissonance. People are able to separate, for example, a Latino person they like while still working to oppress Latinos as a whole. "They're one of the good ones", "You're not like them" - these are phrases said to marginalized people by their oppressors when the oppressors approve of their behavior.
People are able to make exceptions in the midst of the oppression they are perpetrating.
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I know this song is a hit or miss for most people but I do actually find it iconic. Eunchae's rap has been stuck with me and "I'm an otaku bestie" with the duck walk is sooooo... I just love it
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Totally forgot about currency differences! For USD, it's $7 or $14 for the mid and high tiers, which do pay you to post (but pays you based off of the amount of engagement you get).
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I think everyone should be talking about LOONA
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Engagement farming is a full time job
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At the end of the day, people love arguing (I admit I enjoy it too, but not really when it comes to kpop).
People will use anything to make themselves feel better…
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how old is she?
I dunno. She looks way too young
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Being in school is important...........
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The results would be reversed if I asked a Korean forum
These results are just i-fan bias at its finest
People are naturally more likely to respond to the question of "impact" based on where they're from. The vast majority of us haven't ever lived in Korea so any impacts KPop groups make are going to be different. People have spent this thread trying to determine which statistics proves the most impact, but overall I think the concept of it is subjective.
Big Bang has made a large impact in Korea and internationally. But most of us feel as though Blackpink has made a larger impact because of our international perspective.
So I suppose my perspective is that BB has made a larger impact domestically while BP has made a larger impact internationally.
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Poor girl People are so messed up. Idols can never win.