I often get tired of my fandom being too nice. (not on akp) Why do you always want to be diplomatic? What do you think that's gonna do?? Do you think you're gonna talk antis out of being absolutely vile?? like in some kids cartoon?? they're not fucking listening!!! never have!! in the process you just treat their vitriolic bullshit as facts and validate it..... and why do you always want to be "humble" aka downplay everything they do for approval from other fandoms including antis!? you know we get called toxic for existing GIVE IT UP ALREADY.. The members are humble that's one thing. you don't have to be. you're a fan. you're free to praise them. For once, look at the other fandoms from the same generation.. They lose their minds over the bare minimum and tell everyone how amazing that bare minimum thing is, actually. if that's okay, shouldn't it also be okay to give deserved praise to our favs?but oh noooo you want "to stay humble 
" because "everyone is equally amazing " ...do yall actually believe that?? so much that I can't even call my favs the best?
I stan that group because i like THEM. I don't want approval from losers. idgaf what they think. I want the best for my favs. And I want to have fun with likeminded people who also like the group, without other obnoxious stans butting in and telling us what way we're allowed to express our appreciation
tbh it looks like you want validation for YOURSELF, which is kinda loser behaviour....from kpop stans of all people?? seriously? aren't you here to have fun and enjoy your favs...?
people need to grow a pair for 
